Ever have those days when you lack the confidence to... when you feel like nobody wants to be with you... Like it seems like everyone seems to be with someone....
WELL DON'T YOU FRET.....
Don't sit around at home by yourself.
There is a world out there desperate
To see you & hear you & be close to you
Someone will love & cherish you
Someone will want to be with you
Someone will want to be your friend
Someone will be there for you
Someone will come into your life & that...
Someone will be worth the wait!
Sometimes it feels as though there is nobody but there is somebody for everybody. Sometimes it just takes longer for some. Life & love works in myserious ways!
Or wine Wednesday lol!! I read the paper a while back about red wine & head concussion. It says that red wine may ease head concussion. But there hasn't been any completed human studies yet... It says that one would have to drink 50 glasses of red wine to get the required dose! There's something in the grapes that eases something...I can't remember the name....
But I wonder how many glasses of red wine would it take to get a head concussion? How do they know it takes 50 glasses? They must of done some kind of research....
Not just red wine maybe any kind of booze...
BTW not recommending alcoholism....
& I don't having a drinking problem....
What does anyone think of this research....
And no I didn't make this up....LOL LOL....
Its yor life...i f you truly desire a full life, then there is no room in it for excuses- you must simply clear them out!
NO
OPPORTUNITY
WASTED
CONSTANT
AND
NEVERENDING
IMPROVEMENT
FINALLY
LOVING
YOURSELF
N+P=IP......start by doing what's Necessary, then what's Possible, & suddenly you are doing the ImPossible!
Everyone has their pov on this subject & I see your pov...all I can say is this I will tell you a story. Its about me & me making the first move...as I I cry writing this because I think of him.
You see I'm on the shy side & by making the first move got me out of my comfort zone. Here's the story...
I met him on the bus...he's a bus driver. I noticed him there was somthing about him. But he swithched routes & I kept thinking about him..2yrs later I was on his bus again. I said hi & we started chatting on bus 1wk later I gave him my # & ran off the bus...2f days later he contacted me & we started dating.
He was a gentleman...opened doors for me, helped me with my coat, pulled out chair for me. He was affectionate...held my hand while driving, walking, even at the movies. & cuddled while watching tv/movies while at home. And made me laugh.
He did things for me that I dreamed about & I didn't have to ask he just did it. He made feel like no guy has made me feel before.
I didn't settle for less for making the first move. I didn't have to be a superwoman or pay for everything. Its about being together & doing things together. I'd rather make first move & see what happens than wait & wonder what if. Yes its nice to be pursued. But at the same time life is short seize the moment & follow you heart!
What do you do when stressed? Here's something see below!
STRESSED
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DESSERTS
I hate having these stinking thinking funky blue moods! .
I love having these I love my life awesome days!
There are days you feel like a million bucks & nothing dampers your day. You great the day with arms wide open embracing what comes your way. And being greatful for what you have & where you are in life. You feel as though nothing can stop you & nothing will get you down.
THEN.....
You have these days you feel like crap & nothing seems to brighten your day. You wanna cry & you don't know why. Stupid little things bother you for no reason. You think you got it bad & the only one suffering....but it's not true!
REMEMBER...
life is filled with up & down moments...& is unpredictable. We should appreciate what we have & not focus on what we don't get or have.
Life is a rollercoaster ride...up & down we go! Weeeee! Don't be afraid to ride life! Enjoy life...it is fun & scary at times!
I haven't been here long but noticed that there have been blogs about not enough or no responses to their profiles...& the sort.
Seriously.....unrealistic expectations! You shouldn't expect everyone to be interested. Its a numbers game like out in the dating world. There could be reasons out of your control or within as to why they are either are or not interested.
Don't take it personally if no "bites"! Time will tell & just be patient....easier said than done for some. Just try it out & see what happens!
Good luck & have fun along the journey in finding love...even if at times its frustrating & you wonder "when"! Love will find you!
We radiate outer beauty because we treasure our inner beauty. Beauty isn't some vapid & superficial pursuit that exists solely to wag tongues & produce drool. Outer beauty is the message you send to others about you.
What message are you sending out about yourself? Do show you have outer & inner beauty with a beautiful heart & soul...or unattractive way of how you see yourself?
You can be your most beautiful self by making choices & taking actions that will help you look the way you want, & most important, feel & be the way you want.
Find a more authentic & happier you...that makes you more attractive BE yourself, LOVE yourself, you are BE-YOU-tiful! :)
Ladies wondering if you prefer a text or a phone call when a guy asks for a date? Guys do you text or call? What's your preference & why?
I miss the days when guys actually called to ask you out & made plans with you. Was it a guy who invented texting to avoid talking to us ladies...lol! It means more to me when a guy calls to make a date.
Texting has its good points I do text myself! It can in a way keep you in contact with those who text as well when you are busy (hey even sexting can be fun...just not with friends & family!).
Texting can be even good when you don't want to talk....but its also good to hear his voice. Plus texting at times allows you to express yourelf when you can't put the words in your mouth.
At the same time do you really know if its him sending tthe text! Have you ever texted on someone elses behalf? I came across some guys who were texing a girl for their buddy!
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