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a date with myself

I had the weekend off & on Saturday I decided to spend the day by myself. It was a beautiful day. I walked to the farmers market & smpled local goodies, as well I purchased some things....my favorite things that I like. Yummy!

After I decided to go to a roof top patio for a bite & perhaps maybe a drink. Well I got there & patio is closed for season....that sucks now I gotta wait til next year. So I went a got a gelato instead. Then I walked home & along the way I stopped in a few shops. Had a blast!

Later on in the evening I went to a restaurant & sat on the patio. Had dinner & a drink. It was a beautiful fall evening & I enjoyed the atmosphere......the changing leaves & the flowers. I enjoyed the meal as well. It was a nice date!

It was such a beautiful fall day & I didn't want to waste it by being indoors the whole day. I didn't wait for anyone to ask me out. I had no one to join me but I wasn't alone & I didn't feel alone. It didn't bother me but it would of been better if I had someone special to join me & enjoy the day with. But I chatted with others & enjoyed my date with myself.

Over all it was fun & I treated myself.
If I have no date then I'll take myself out.
Its ok to do what you want even alone.
No need to wait for....just do it!
It can be better then expected....try it!
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Attention to all :).......

A cow.....mooo mooo
A pig.......ooink ooink

For all men who say,......
"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"

Here's an update for you.....
Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage.
Why?
Because women realize its not worth buying an entire pig,.....
Just to get a little sausage.

Do you want cow or milk?
Do you want pig or sausage?
Or do you want both?



laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh grin peace
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TIMBIT

Its night & I had cooffee now I can't sleep & I'm feeling silly!

Timbit hockey tinbit bowling
How timbits can u stuff in your mouth?
Tasty timbits dunking rimbits
Rocking timbits
Rock & roll timbits
Let's have a timbit fight
Or how far we can throw a timbit


Maybe its too many timbits
Or maybe its that coeffee lol
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!?! PRICETAG !?!

Is there really a pricetag on...
Our time? Our emotions? Our wallet?
When in a relationship?
Or starting out with someone new?

What's more important....
The quality time spent together?
Or how many times ur together?
Or what you do together?

What's more important....
The $ amount spent on the date?
The $ amount spent on a gift?
Or a gift from the heart?


I had a conversation with a friend a while back after a heart break. We were talking about spending time together & tokens of appreciation.

As for time she told me....he's so busy that when we get together I cherish the time together even for 2hrs once a week. She also mentioned that....its not how many times you get together that matters its what you do together that matters.

For gifts....gifts from the heart mean more than an expensive gift. When you think of your gifts....its something that gives you memories of that day & of that person you don't forget. Its the little things that you remember the most....not the pricetag.

Can we really put a pricetag on love? Or anything else? With that special someone its the memories together that we remember. Its looking forward to being together doing things together. When you focus on the $ amount you forget the person & see them as an ABM of time & money.

What's more important....
The pricetag of time & money?
Or the person themselves?
You can't put a pricetag on....
Someones heart & emotions!
Our memories are priceless!
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what do you want?

It takes courage to want more. When you have no glistening faith or trust in yourself. You build that faith, when you leap, not before.

You wanted an impossible life
You wanted freedom

"You didn't really know what you wanted. You just know you wanted to live & that there has to be something more.
You wanted it so bad that you didn't want to live if living meant existing in the life you know.
You didn't know that saying no to the only life you know was saying yes to the life that would come".

Propel yourself to the life you want!

You seem rather unsure of yourself at the moment. Why is that? You will make sense of your life, when th tine is right. Make the most of what's to come, it will bring new openings & opportunities.
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MISSING SOMETHING

I recently had a conversation with someone.we were discussing things about relationships. Both of being single for a while. A question was asked....

The question was....
What do you miss the most about being in a relationship?


And to those who are in a relationship what do you enjoy the most in your relationship?
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ONE SIZE FITS ALL……

Does it really?
We all come in different shapes & sizes.
Could you imagine....
If something really fits all...
Hmmm I don't think so!

Don't you just hate it when you go shopping for clothes & there's no standard size....

In one store you fit in a small
Another store you're a large

Try on one size it looks hood on you so you go to another store try that same size on & you can't squeeze into it.

Omigosh now I think I'm fat!!
frustrated frustrated frustrated

But when it fits....wow!
yay yay yay

Ahhh the joys of retail therapy! smitten
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FOOD FOR THOUGHT....

Mmmmm I love food
I love to cook & be creative with food.
At times I create my own recipes.

How do you like it?

Hot & spicy?
Cold & dry?
Hot & wet?
Sweet & juicy?
Hot & dry?
Cold & wet?
Sweet & tart?
Sweet & sour?
Sweet or bitter?
Hot or cold?

What's your guilty pleasure?
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MY INNER PRISON...

Hold on for one more day...
Break free from the chains...

I don't want to let myself down any longer. I want to be free to do as I please. I gotta stop self-sabotaging myself. Release me from my inner prison! My inner prison is my inner voice telling me negative things which causes my negative emotions to surface.

What is my inner prison doing to me? Its telling me that I'm not good enough, I'm unloveable, that I won't find someone to love me, that I'm not beautiful enough on my ugly days, that...., it could go on & on. Does it serve me any purpose? NO!!

It causes me so much inner grief, self-doubt, lack of confidence. It makes me fear rejection & especially fearing being hurt again. Does closing myself off accomplish anything? Hell no!!

It keeps telling me so many things that aren't true. It causes me so many wasted tears, of not letting go, of holding onto something that's no longer there, of holding onto past hurts. Of....

Will I be hurt again? Unffortunately yes but hopefully not! Will the next guy hurt me? Probably not! I don't wanna walk around like a wounded victim of heartache. My inner prison is holding me back from moving forward.

We all want it...to love & be loved. But at the same time we put up a wall, we end up not letting anyone in, because we are afraid to open up. We are so afraid that we don't open that door & open oureslve up for....we put up that wall because we're fearing "something".

Are we really fearing love to the point that we stay captive in our inner prison? Why are we keeping ourselves in this cage?
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YOU NOSE YOU KNOW YOU NO....

I nose I'm being a silly one
I nose its my nose-sillyness

How many nose b4 a yes
Nobody nose
How many nose get slammed by door
Before another door opens
Nobody nose
Don't wanna nose around
But I nose for real
I smell a nose when I see it
You nose it you smell it in the air
Who nose I didn't pick my nose
Pick a nose any nose
All I nose is I have a nose
I nose I nose
Of course of course
But who nose
Who am I to nose what's real
Who am I to nose what's in store
All I nose is to enjoy
All those unanswered
Nobody nose questions
Let's have a nose dive
In the unkowns of life
Nobody gonna rain on my nose parade
Its raining noses
And no I don't have a nose fetish
Have a nose-rific day
Wake up & smell the noses lol
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A HUG FOR YOU

ARE YOU HAVING A NOT SO GOOD DAY....WELL HERE'S A HUG. NO STRINGS ATTACHED. HUGS FOR ALL...EXCEPT SCAMMERS.

THERE IS NO HIDDEN COSTS OR UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. I WILL HUG YOU BACK....IF I DON'T WELL YOU CAN HUG YOURSELF.

IF YOU'RE LUCKY MAYBE A KISS....
IF NOT SOMEONE ELSE WILL....
A HUG IS WHAT'S NEEDED BY ALL
CAN'T YOU JUST FEEL THE LOVE
LET'S HAVE A GROUP HUG
WHO'S ALL ABOARD FOR A HUG
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PRIVATE EMOTION...

Private person.....private time
So what do you day there....

Thank yourself for being you
Don't waste your uniqueness

To get something you never had,
You have to do something you never did

Thinhs we feel most deeply,
Are the hardest things to say
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