Women...beatifully imperfect.
Men...handsomely imperfect.
We have our faults & flaws & all.
Our scars & wounds do tell a story..
We are born to stand out...not fit in.
We're unique in our own special ways.
Your uniqueness will stand out.
We may not like this or that about ourselves.
So what? But seriously who doesn't?
But someone else may not even notice it.
Our bodies aren't meant to be perfect.
Especially from head to toe.
So what? Who's body is perfect?
Just learn to embrace your imperfections.
I love my body & sometimes I don't .
I accept & cherish my body as it is.
Because it does what it needs to do.
I'm not gonna take my body for granted.
My body is my one & only vessel.
** I do have a love/hate relationship with my body....but I remember this which I read somewhere....
" I find peace when I don't see my body as the enemy. You can't look at yourself in the mirror & tear your body apart. You have to look at it & go & say....thank you my body. Thank you for standing by me, for being there no matter what I have put you through".
Women...beautifully imperfect.
Men...handsomely imperfect.
MISCOMMUNICATION
FOOT IN MOUTH DISEASE
HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU BEFORE…
WHETHER YOURSELF OR WITH ANOTHER…
You say something you didn't mean & the other person totally misinterpreted what you said/text. You apologize & they tell you to f*** off....& don't want to talk/see you again.
Or little things they do bother you & you say nothing....little by little it buulds up & you keep saying nothing until one day when of corse you're having a bad & day & they upset you....you blow up the pented up frustration.
Yes we should speak up at the time.
Yes we shouldn't hold it in.
Yes no one is a mind reader.
No longer hold it in...let it out now
What would make you not speak to someone again? What would they have to do/say for that to happen? What if one day you talked it out & realized it was over something so silly or stupid?
Would you feel guilty for what you said? Would you like to get it off your chest? Would you wait for them to call to apologize? Would you accept their apology? Do you regret saying something or nothing?
YES IT HAPPENS TO US ALL
ITS OUR CHOICE IN WHAT.....
** WE DO OR DON'T DO
** WE SAY OR DON'T SAY
Speak up or forever hold your peace. Holding it in just prolongs the inner turmoil. It leaves unexpressed feelings & regrets. Do yourself a favor...let it out & don't hold it in. But it also doesn't mean hurting someone by expressing yourself.
Chances are they may be experiencing the same thing. You said something & don't know how to approach it. They don't want to say something in fear of hurting your feelings.
CAN WE HANDLE THE WHOLE TRUTH
AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH…?
OR ARE WE AFRAID OF THE TRUTH…?
I'm sick & tired
Of being
Sick & tired!
I'm tired of anticipation
And experiencing disappointment
I'm tired of exciement
And experiencing heartache
I'm upset
But I'm missing you
I can't stop crying
Because I'm thinking
Of you & about you
I miss your voice
I miss your touch
You made me forget
About my last heartache
Which I thought
Couldn't happen
But it did
Because of you
Thank you for being you
Thank you being in my life
Thank you for your time
I wish it ended better
I wish we talked it out
Why'?
Miscommunication
Foot in mouth disease
Thank you for your heart & soul
Thank you for the time together
I hope you come back
I aprreciate what you've done
Because my soul is now crying
DON'T
LET
YOUR
WOUNDS
MAKE
YOU
BECOME
SOMEONE
YOU'RE
NOT
I read an article awhile back about a lady having a wedding ceremony for herself. She invited some close friends & family. Why? She was tired of being asked when she's gonna get married. Or what was wrong with her. She stated, "well if I can't marry myself then who will".
"Do you take yourself to love & to hold, for sickness & health, for richer or for poor, for better or for worse, till death do you part?" Can you say "I do?" If not...why?
If you can't.....or don't....or won't .....
Love yourself
Respect yourself
Cherish yourself
Accept yourself
Take care of yourself
Live with yourself
Be with yourself
Enjoy your own company
Find yourself
Express yourself
Discover yourself
Be friends with yourself
Be there for yourself
If you can't be all that for yourself....how is anybody else? In order to have someone in your life, you have to be there for yourself. If you don't love yourself enough then who's gonna love you & spend the rest of their lives with you? First comes love then comes marriage.
Love & respect yourself enough to say "I do"
If you can't or won't ....then will they? ^_^
So the question is...You can't? Or...You won't?
We have our strengths & weaknesses.
To someone we are their strength.
To another we are their weakness.
Together we can balance them out.
In essence we are both in our own way.
To someone we are just right as we are.
To another they'll always find something wrong.
So no matter what someone accepts us.
Someone will always love us as we are.
That special someone will eventually come.
When we least expect them to.
They will show us what we were seeking.
They will make us realize what's missing.
They make the waiting worth it.
At times it feels it won't happen.
You're tired of the moments of loneliness.
In that time you should find yourself.
In that time seek self discovery.
It will happen when the time is right.
And when you find each other.
Right moment. Right place. Right.....
When its time the gift of love is there.
Give the gift of yourself in love.
Cheers to the new year!
Out with the old. In with the new.
Fresh starts & new beginnings.
Start with a blank slate.
Don't look back, look forward.
The present is a gift of time.
Self love. Self care. Self discovery.
Love yourself. Care for yourself.
Discover yourself.
Rediscover what was lost within.
Explore the undiscovered.
Step out of your comfort zone.
Be bold & daring.
Feel the fear & do it anyway.
Embrace the unknown.
Expect the unexpected.
Welcome what comes your way.
Amongst the darkness there is light.
Open your eyes to see the light.
Open your mind to the impossible.
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE
LOTS OF LOVE, HUGS, & KISSES
PEACE, LOVE, & JOY
THANK YOU ALL FOR BEING YOU & I'M GRATEFUL FOR KNOWING YOU ALL IN THE CS BLOGS. YOU'VE ALL TOUCHED MY LIFE IN MANY WAYS. WE'VE SHARED TEARS & LAUGHTER. I'VE LEARNED SO MUCH. YOU'VE HELPED ME WITH YOUR ADVICE. YOU'VE CHEERED ME UP. YOU'VE HELPED ME OPEN UP. YOU'VE BEEN THERE FOR ME WHEN I NEEDED IT. TO ALL OF YOU HAVE A JOYFUL HOLIDAY! I WILL CHERISH THE NEMORIES HERE ON CS BLOGS. CHEERS TO MORE GOOD TIMES.
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EVERYONE
LOTS OF LOVE, HUGS, & KISSES
PEACE, LOVE, JOY
I was reading & came across this.....
ViNCENT VAN GOUGH
Love is something eternal---the aspects may change, but not the essence. There is the same difference in a person before & after he is in love as there is in an enlightened lamp & one that is burning. The lamp was there & it is a good lamp, but now it is shedding light, too, & that is its real function
ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON
So long as we love, we serve. So long as we are loved by others I would almost say we are indispensable, & no man is useless while he has a friend.
JOHANN WOLFGANG VON GOETH
That is the true season of love, when we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, & that no one will love in the same way as us.
VICTOR HUGO
The greatest happiness in the world is the conviction that we are loved, loved for ourselves, or rather loved in spite of ourselves.
This weekend was wonderful. I spent it with my family I went out of town with my sister & mom to my other sisters. We decided to have an xmas weekend...yes its early but it was worth it.
Due to our conflicting schedules we won't be able to celebrate xmas on dec 25th this year. Last year we didn't get together. So this year it feels special. On my next weekend off we're having our xmas dinner early....& that's ok as long as we get together.
We put up the xmas tree & decorated it....& her place. Make some cookies. Made a few spirited drinks. Played some xmas music also. We stayed up & had a blast.
When we made cookies my niece wanted to help. She was excited & even had her apron on....but she fell asleep before we started. Today we baked them up. I even made mimi cupcakes in a cupcake maker.
Lol the best part was when my niece (3) & my nephew (1) when we weren't looking would take the ornaments off the tree. So we put them back up again....& they kept doing it again.
Why am I thinking of food now? Its late at night & I can't sleep. Maybe I'll dream of food. I'm already thinking food & its not breakfast yet lol. Its starting to get colder weather wise. I'm thinking warm foods.
Now I'm thinking of comfort food that warms the heart. When growing up what was your favorite food that brings back good memories. And does it still make you smile? Do you still make it & enjoy it? There's nothing like homemade cooking/baking made with love.
I remember growing up & making perogies with my baba & my mothers aunt. Making them & eating at same time....couldn't make them fast enough lol. I miss my baba's cooking....the smell of butter & dill remind me of her.
When growing up on Sunday breakfast we would have pncakes with whipped cream & strawberries in syrup. Yummy! We didn't have it every Sunday but when we did we were so excited. My mom couldn't make the pancakes fast enough. We still do it but not as often.
Isn't amazing how sometimes food can bring back memories or remind you of someone. Sitting together & enjoying a meal with loved ones. Catching up & hopefully enjoying precious time together eating. And even preparing the food together.
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