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Gifts!

There are many occasions where we receive gifts from others. Whether from friends or family, even from our significant other. We either like what we receive or we don't. Some are priceless. Sometimes its better to give than to receive.

They say its the thought that counts. Sometimes the best gifts are from the heart. It shouldn't matter of the pricetag, as long as its thoughtful. Some gifts are either practical, romantic, handmade, sentimental. Then there are some.....what were they thinking!!

For me there are some things I never want as gifts, especially for certain occasions. Am I fussy? No! I know what I like & don't like. I'm sure we've all gotten something we didn't like, or would want in the dirst place.

What are some things, or one thing you would not like or want as a gift? And why? Do you associate certain occasions with certain gifts? Or does it matter? Do you keep a price limit on gifts or not bother?
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!!! (((LOVE))) !!!

LOVE IS....SO MANY THINGS.

LOVE is beautiful.
LOVE is the song of your heart.
LOVE is a smiling heart.
LOVE is an inspiration.
LOVE is strength.
LOVE is courage.
LOVE is two hearts as one.
LOVE is being vulnerable.
LOVE is opening up.
LOVE is growing together.
LOVE is being there.
LOVE is being supportive.
LOVE is priceless.
LOVE is neverending.

LOVE IS....SO MANY THINGS.

Love doesn't cost a thing. Its worth fighting for, as long as no one gets hurt. It doesn't care how you look. It has no time limit. It comes when it comes. Love is a great feeling. It feels great to find love.....to love & be loved. No need to worry if you haven't found that love....it'll happen when the time is right. And you can't rush it. Or force it. Or buy it.

When you find this kind of love, hold onto it. Don't smother it. Let it blossom in its own time. Love grows as its nurtured. Hold onto love. Treaure it. Each day it gets better & becomes more beautiful. It allows you to be vulnerable with your feelings.....you become comfortable enough to express yourself. Because you become unafraid.

Opening up takes strength & courage. It motivates you to become a better person. It teaches you things, you thought were inpossible. It takes effort on both sides. You grow as a person. It teaches you things. Its one of the best feelings in the world. It makes you wanna be with that person no matter what. For better or worse....to the end.

NO AMOUNT OF MONEY CAN EVER DO THAT!!!
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I'm Freezing!!

I NEED WARM THOUGHTS
I NEED SOME WARM HUGS

Its winter here & I'm aready tired of it! I. Looking forward to the warmer months. It gets cold, then it warms up to the point it starts melting. Then it cools off, making everything slippery. The it starts to snow agin to replace the melted snow laugh & is cold again.

Tonight its around -30•c with the wind. I know I should be used to the winters here, but its the cold I don't like. Factor in the wind....BRRR|!! I don't mind a nice breeze ln a hot day tho! I'm glad its not this cold all the time grin yay

So what's the coldest its been where you live? Or the hottest? daydream cold I'm dreaming of escaping to a warm destination to run away from the cold laugh I'm counting down the days to sring & summer grin heart beating
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MOVIES!!!

There's so many movies to see,,,whether in the theater or at home. Every once In awhile a movie shows on tv....the only thing I don't like is the commercials. DVDs are good. I'm starting to watch more, especially now I got a snuggling movie partner.

I remember when I was younger, I had my favorite movies I could watch over & over again. I look at my niece & see have a couple favorites already....& every time she watches them she doesn't tire of them. And can't wait to see them again.

So recently I've started watching the movies I enjoyed when I was younger. I haven't seen them all yet. Some I can't find. And the funny thing is that for some.....I think, "did I really like this?" Lol. Its amazing how we once liked a movie & years later realize that movie seems different.

The last couple months I've started buying DVDs (some really good deals)....& I've come across many that I've forgotten about or brings back memories. Some I haven't seen yet. I even gotten into watching the old movies....black & white ones.

What movies do you like? What haven't seen in awhile! What movies did you like growing up? Or movies you like to see? What movie could you see over again & never tire of it? What do you like to eat or have while watching a movie?
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What to do?

I've been thinking recently & debating about something. Its new to me, I haven't been in this situation before. I'm excited but yet at the same time so many thoughts at the same time. I'm not sure if its doubt or being nervous or something.

Me & my boyfriend I met from CS are planning on moving in together. He wants me to move into his place. In some ways I don't want too. Its not as tho I don't want to live with him....I do! The problem for me is location. The problem for him is his mortgage will be finished in 3yrs

It would be nice if we had our own place....our first place together. If we stay at his place I won't feel as tho its ours...but his. He lives in a small town & I live in the city. At the moment I don't have a vehicle & there's no public transportation where he lives. But where I live there is.

So if we decide to live there, I would feel isolated, & that I'm losing my freedom & independence....in a way. I don't want to rely on him for transportation & being close to public transportation will help me get around. Plus it'll be hard for me to work if can't get around.

I've asked around & someone mentioned that its possible to carry your mortgage when you decide to move before the mortgage is up. And you can use it for or combine it towards a new place. Not sure of all the details tho... I (we) have to look into it & see the options.

If I live there I would have to change my job....I have no problem doing that since I'm ready for a change. It would be nice to have a Monday to Friday job with wknds off. I work evenings & wknds at the moment. He works days & every wknd off.

At the moment I've voiced some of my concerns, but he's away at work. So when he comes back, we can discuss it more. But I feel so many things all at once. I'm excited, nervous, confused alittle. But I don't want to feel I'm making a mistake. I don't want to wait until his mortgage is paid off before we move in together.

We both should make compromises, but I'm feeling like I am & he's not. Its a big step for us. And I'm ready but.... I haven't lived with a guy before...this is new to me. Lol :) When two move in together...should it matter where they live? Who moves where? Should they start from scratch & find a place together?

Any advice/suggestions/ideas?
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Happy & Belated...

Cheers to the new year!
To fresh starts & new beginning!

I know its late...but I've been busy having fun. I had good holidays. Ate too much laugh but its all good. I can't complain. I hope everyone is doing well. I even had a bit of the flu.

Here's a belated new years hug & kiss to everyone.....or whoever wants one laugh grin

BIG HUG.....hug kiss
And a kiss lips lips
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Sneaky! Sneaky!

We've all done at one point or another.
Possibly many moons ago....or years.
I wonder if some still do so.... hmmm giggle

As we all know the xmas season is coming upon us. And just looking at my niece & nephew....especially my niece since she's older. Do you remember getting excited over the holidays & can't wait for xmas day. I'm gonna tell you a story about my sneaky niece.

I was at my sisters place on Monday & Tuesday. On both days I noticed my niece hiding jnder the bed. I asked her if she's ok. She says..."I'm ok" . I thought that was strange. The next day she did that, I looked under the bed...many thoughts came to mind. All I saw was a bag of shoesl

Later on in the evening I told her about her under the bed. She said maybe she's playing with the shoes. I said that she wasn't interested in the shoes. She was just laying down under the bed. Then she told us a story & it all made sense.

My sister mentioned that one day she noticed a unusual smell in her room. She thought maybe she had an accident & didn't want to say anything. So my sister investigated. And then discovered the source of the smell.

Apparently me niece was pouring juice down the vent & found, juice boxes, empty candy & chocolate wrappers, & sucker sticks. My niece was sneaking treats & then hiding the evidence down the heating vent. The smell was the juice. And I noticed my going into my sisters purse & going upstairs.....

Why didn't I think of that? I remember being sneaky when I was younger tho. Does anyone else remember what they did when they were younger...as in hiding stuff & hoping not getting caught. And trying to peek into your gifts as you're curious. My sister doesn't even put the gifts under the tree....the kids would just open them.
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My Religious Heart

My religion is my heart!
I was not raised religious.
So I'm not religious!

Growing up my parents didn't raise me to be religious. Both my parents do have different religious backgrounds tho. But I've been to church as a child while growing up. Mostly through friends. I may know some things about different religions, but not everything. I'm sure there are people who are in the same boat.

Personally I have nothing against people who are religious. There is so much we don't know....even if we think we know it all laugh But what I don't like is when some people feel that their religion is better than the rest. There is no ideal relgion....they all do believe in a god. Nothing wrong with that. We all do have a right to believe in something.

We can definately see the good, the bad, & the ugly in any religion/culture. We were all raised differently & with different beliefs. Some were raised to believe certain things,,,,whether they were "sheltered" or had limited sources, or were "told" certain things. So we go out in the real world....& realize there's so much to learn.

But some will, stay set in their ways or learn to accept differences amongst others....& their beliefs. At times we may not agree & clash. We judge others through misunderstandings & what we've learned. Before we judge we should seek to understand. We should look for opportunities to understand one another. We live in a time where knowledge is at our fingertips.

I know religion can be a touchy subject. Some take it personally. For some people, religion is close to their heart. Some may get offended if someone talks down or makes assumptions about a particular religion. If that happens, make a point or defend, but don't take on personal attack. Take the opportunity to educate.

On this site there are many people from around the world with different religious backgrounds & different cultures & beliefs....& such. Why don't we take an opportunity to expand our knowledge, seek understanding & stop the bickering & attacks. Its bad enough in the outside world....do we need to do so here?

There are billions of people on this earth at this moment. We all have 3 things in common....#1. We are born! #2. We live! #3. We pass on!. The only difference is how we live & what we believe in. We all have an opportunity to make a difference....big or small.

PS...just a thought since all religions have a god....have you ever thought there's only 1 god & he created these different religions to see if we all get along, even amongst our differences. Appaerntly till this day we haven't still. Look at all the wars (& lives lost) over the years & now...its about relgion & power.....the power to control.

DON'T JUDGE WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING
FOR ME....
MY RELIGION IS MY HEART
IF SOMEONE HAS A PROBLEM WITH THAT....
OH WELL. SO WHAT…?
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Just Imagine...

If the whole world was blind,
How many people would you impress?
Or maybe we never know.

Those that feel & see with their heart.
As they say & I've heard,,,,
As one sense is gone another is heightened.

Maybe we will never know but...
Sometimes people can & have...
Surprised us when least expected.



Now tell me as we are all visual creatures of habit. We see "eye candy" & do they stimulate your intellectual sense? Nice to look at, but underneath, what do they have to offer? Besides "arm candy". We can't always judge a book (or a person) by their cover. There's always more than what meets the eye.

Sometimes a person can have both inner & outer beauty. Sometimes a person can have inner & outer uglyness. But sometimes we see a person is good looking & associate them as being "dumb". A person can be both beautiful & smart. A person can be intellectually smart, but sometimes they aren't socially savvy.



We make assumptions of other people.
We often make judegements of others.
Before really getting to know them.

We may dream up the perfect man/woman.
But do we know what they really look like...
Before we actually meet & get to know them?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
But the heart can see before the eye.
Love is a feeling, not something you see.
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Weight of Love!

Women don't need to be Victoria Secret Angels....
Men don't need to be Calvin Klein Models....
TO LOVE & BE LOVED.
Love comes in ALL shapes & sizes.
Always did, always have, & always will.
Be comfortable in your own skin.
Strip down & look at yourself in the mirror...
LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF & YOUR BODY.
Love will always find you no matter how you look.
If someone tells you otherwise...tell them to shove it.



*** Remember the movie...SHREK ***
Its one of the best fairytales.
It reminds us that we don't need to be perfectt...
*** TO LIVE HAPPULY EVER AFTER ***
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Ooh those toots!

You gotta be kidding me giggle
Is tooting a sign of affection?
Yes its a tooting blog laugh

It happens from time to time, whether we admit it or not. We get to a point & we toot out loud. We can't hold it in no longer. Do you let let it out or squeak it out? When you squeak out loud, do you hope there's no "evidence"?

No matter how hard we try to be discreet, the more we try to contain the sound, the louder it gets. Why is that so? Even tho you make sure you don't do so in the presence of others,...tooot! *embarrassed*

Never believe when someone says they never toot. They're lieing. We all do it. We even fart in our sleep. Even tho you can control yourself when you're awake. Your body does things while you're sleeping.

Are you comfortable breaking wind around certain people? I know embarrassing especially when it comes without warning. Some don't care for some reason. Toots are a normal bodily function, done everyday. If ya don't there's something wrong with you.

Toots aren't a sign of affection.
Nothing says love ya like a good toot.
Please don't toot & stink the blogs!
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Its bound to happen! :)

After awhile we finally meet someone from online dating & hit it off. Its going really good & so the couple decides to move in together. The couple now merge both their lives together into one home. Now sharing almost everything together. Now you gotta decide what goes & what stays....compromise!

With this site there is many options to explore besides the search button. Which can lead to many distractions while looking for love. I've learned a lot along the way. I've been distracted many times. I've chatted with some guys. I've met some guys. And I've met a guy from this site, some already know. We've been together for almost 8 months.

There comes a point when you gotta decide if you wanna stay or not. I've decided to stay & blog for the time being. He's ok with that. I've asked him if he's ok with me doing so. He says he's ok with it, as long as I'm not hooking up with other guys. Which I'm not.

It comes down to trust. He didn't tell me to close my account & I didn't tell him to either. If/when we do, its our decision. No he doesn't blog tho. I've suggested to him he should some time...he's a good writer. But he says he's too shy. But if he were a regular blogger....& we lived together....I think it would be cool to have a profile together.

I know some people feel as soon as you're in a relationship, you should close your account. I choose not too. Why? Its my decision & I enjoy the blogs at times....its another way of expressing myself. He knows I blog & I tell him when I write a blog & I read it to him.

Now I know this tolpic has come up before. Reverse the roles...would you feel the same? Alll I know is if I feel uncomfortable with him still online, then my gut is telling me something & that he's giving me a reason to not trust him.

Have I gave him my password....no! Do I have his....no! I would feel uncomfortable with this. Why? I would feel like a spy, spying on him. Its good to have your own individuality. Yes you want to share things with each other....sometimes TMI giggle but not everything.

Now...how much is too much?
When it comes to sharing things?
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