Its bound to happen! :)

After awhile we finally meet someone from online dating & hit it off. Its going really good & so the couple decides to move in together. The couple now merge both their lives together into one home. Now sharing almost everything together. Now you gotta decide what goes & what stays....compromise!

With this site there is many options to explore besides the search button. Which can lead to many distractions while looking for love. I've learned a lot along the way. I've been distracted many times. I've chatted with some guys. I've met some guys. And I've met a guy from this site, some already know. We've been together for almost 8 months.

There comes a point when you gotta decide if you wanna stay or not. I've decided to stay & blog for the time being. He's ok with that. I've asked him if he's ok with me doing so. He says he's ok with it, as long as I'm not hooking up with other guys. Which I'm not.

It comes down to trust. He didn't tell me to close my account & I didn't tell him to either. If/when we do, its our decision. No he doesn't blog tho. I've suggested to him he should some time...he's a good writer. But he says he's too shy. But if he were a regular blogger....& we lived together....I think it would be cool to have a profile together.

I know some people feel as soon as you're in a relationship, you should close your account. I choose not too. Why? Its my decision & I enjoy the blogs at times....its another way of expressing myself. He knows I blog & I tell him when I write a blog & I read it to him.

Now I know this tolpic has come up before. Reverse the roles...would you feel the same? Alll I know is if I feel uncomfortable with him still online, then my gut is telling me something & that he's giving me a reason to not trust him.

Have I gave him my password....no! Do I have his....no! I would feel uncomfortable with this. Why? I would feel like a spy, spying on him. Its good to have your own individuality. Yes you want to share things with each other....sometimes TMI but not everything.

Now...how much is too much?
When it comes to sharing things?