My "first move" story...
Everyone has their pov on this subject & I see your pov...all I can say is this I will tell you a story. Its about me & me making the first move...as I I cry writing this because I think of him.You see I'm on the shy side & by making the first move got me out of my comfort zone. Here's the story...
I met him on the bus...he's a bus driver. I noticed him there was somthing about him. But he swithched routes & I kept thinking about him..2yrs later I was on his bus again. I said hi & we started chatting on bus 1wk later I gave him my # & ran off the bus...2f days later he contacted me & we started dating.
He was a gentleman...opened doors for me, helped me with my coat, pulled out chair for me. He was affectionate...held my hand while driving, walking, even at the movies. & cuddled while watching tv/movies while at home. And made me laugh.
He did things for me that I dreamed about & I didn't have to ask he just did it. He made feel like no guy has made me feel before.
I didn't settle for less for making the first move. I didn't have to be a superwoman or pay for everything. Its about being together & doing things together. I'd rather make first move & see what happens than wait & wonder what if. Yes its nice to be pursued. But at the same time life is short seize the moment & follow you heart!
Comments (13)
Yes why can't more women be brave like you and make the first move
But ok, its your style i guess.
Zweet, we have most of us been heartbroken at one point or another. I was as early as 17 y old. but i had a bd story with i girl from abroad viiting here for the summer of 08. That autumn and winter was the worst i've had in years.
Better now though. Time heals all. And new opportunetys do too.
Yea, isent it great when the chance u take pays off!!!!!
I would do it again. I kept debating if I should/shouldn't...I'm glad I did. We had some good memories together. If I didn't i'd keep wondering what if...now I know!
I know guys where the woman has made the first move, and they have ended up happily married with family. So it does work.