...how do men and women become so inhumane as these people. What creates such vicious beliefs.
Education or lack of.
Religion
culture
Parenting
or born evil ?
This is not against islam by the way !..it has nothing to do with it.
What does being successful mean to you?
Do you have a way to measure success in your life?
People measure success in many different ways and on many different levels. When setting goals in life, it’s important that we identify what success means to us personally, so that when we succeed we will know it.
For example, most people measure success in business according to their income; however this may not be an accurate assessment. If your business efforts provide a substantial monetary reward but you don’t enjoy what you do, can this really be called success?
So my question is, do you look for finical success in men to be able to provide..or does it run much deeper than that, maybe a good listener..someone who understands you. a great father to your children.
Here in the middle east i see that good education is a must..to be able to get the best job you can to provide. This more often than not means your a suit wearer..work in an establishment that commands respect.
Your thoughts
Reason, Season, or Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
— Unknown
What do u think to this.....?
Some blogs say that men are less emotional and show hatred less than women..
Why is it statistically men, when in a relationship breakup, are more likely to kill their partners, themselves , and in some cases their children..than women ?
How many have you have been on dates from Cs and other wise..say since you split from your last longterm lover..Just want to see how successful these sites are.
Ok so i read a blog regards romance from Men..so i ask you ladies out there..what is romance..what you expect...
make it simple and list 1-10 making 1 being the most important..just curious....as I have read differing views.
Some time ago I posted a blog about my dad coming through on a ouija board..I was going to post a another blog about another experience i had the next day but wasn't in the mood.
However its fast approaching my mums death on the 25th of this month so I think now is the time. Not long after she died, and the pain felt from her loss, my sister in law had this bright idea of taking me and my brother to a medium show, now this women is famous and was the medium for Lady Diana Spencer..her name is Sally Morgan, Any way I was very apprehensive of sitting in a big area with lots of people thinking my mum would come through with a message. She didn't and Im glad as i wasn't ready yet.
On Jan 4th this year, 4 years after my mum passed away I had a dream that bolted me out of bed, I can clearly see I was standing on a path looking at the green and road in front of me, with some houses to my right, I noticed a women standing there with her back towards me, with what I thought was a really bad wig, my mum had cancer so lost her hair and had to wear wigs, but really good ones, this was awful. As I looked this women turned to look at me, it was my mum, she never smiled, just stared at me. I shot out of bed, Ive not had a dream for years, this was horrible.
Within 30 secs of waking up my phone beeps with an email, 7;30 am..i opened it up to find it was from my ex GF.. whom I had split from 6 months previous, she was very spiritual and would have quite a few dreams that were so accurate it was scary, she even predicted us splitting and me working in the Middle East, any how this email was equally as accurate and very scary.
" Ian this is not an excuse to contact you or for you to reply to me, I want you to listen to what I have to say, I would prefer you do not reply to this email, I'm not sure if this will means anything to you but i feel I have to tell you. I have a terrible headache and will write down as much as I can.
Its starts off by saying how my mum talks to her often and cares about her and her life which makes her cry, she even smells her perfume...but she tells her about me, what I am doing and how annoyed she is with me..it mentions what I was doing that day !!!!. My mum says that I am to be wary of women with the letters A and L..and that there will be tears but not mine..tears because they think I am the answer to their problems and that I need to be wary of what friends I make..
She says that My son, shopping and girls don't mix..that day i was going shopping and going to introduce my son to a girl I had met..He name was Laiza..(L) she was a filipino 35 with 2 kids who had a rough life..I won't go into the details but she was after my money.I ended that short relationship after she asked for ALLOWANCE !!!.
next to follow as too long for blog
do any of you believe this..religious or not ?..have any of you experience speaking to any members of your family via dreams...quija board or a medium..and been totally blown away ?
....just heard the new iPhone out for men..the alarm gives you a bl** job in the morning instead of the usual racket...its called the iPhone sex
A young couple get married..and find out they cant have children the natural way..so they look at the other options...luckiiy there were.IVF..after much consultation and advice they go thorough the process..and after one embryo that fertilises, they have on in a millilon chance and 9 months later a son is born...
After 2 years they decided they would like more, but after 4 attempts and 1,000's of pounds it doesn't work..so they realise they will only have one child. 9 years pass and the couple encounter the usual strains of marriage until one day the wife says to the husband..I dont love you any more..his world feel apart..he lost his family and al he had worked for so he felt..
However after 2 months the wife announces shes pregnant, and they decide the best thing was to get back together and bring up this new born together..but in this guys mind was a nagging doubt..was it his ?..9 months later the child was born...a baby girl..life was good. But still this guy had a nagging doubt..was this child his ?
In the end he had to know and did a DNA,without anyone else knowing the DNA results arrive on a Friday, the day before the Christening of his daughter..he opens it up to see the results. The next day the christening happened and it was time for the speech from the child's father..to explain how miricles can happen..as he pulls th speech from his pocket. he opens the letter..and says " i was going to make a speech of how I was so happy that we have a daughter to compliment our fmiy..but I cant..I have a letter in front of me saying this girl is not mine..the DNA results prove it..so ill hand you over to th mother to explain it...
As you can imagine they split up..its now been 6 years for that couple..his ex wife gets married tomorrow and this man will sign documents so her new husband can adopt that child..this guy is happy for the new couple, they are very happy..and its final closure of what has been a difficult period seeing a girl that you thought was yours.. taken away..
that man ?...was me..
....having lived in the Uk up until I was 46..now residing in the Middle east..I have to say its opened my eyes for many reasons..We as westerners are so use to reading the papers, seeing the news and looking at muslims, not all I will add, as nut jobs. But it was not until I worked in and around these people, from all countries, how ignorant us as westerners really are.
Im not religious in any way shape of form, and Im still amazed peole believe it...however i work with and have many people under my management that are muslims..I can can say they would give me there last bottle of water..their last meal..I can honestly say I have meet some of the nicest people I have ever met in these past 2 years in the Middle East..I still do not like the way women are regarded, but hopefully this will change.
Ive been on the other side hearing and seeing their plights, i really see how the US is really despised now with its gun ho approach.lets bomb and ask question later...the fear we are put upon about Iran..These people are lovely !!!!.
So when some one says all Muslims are bad..go and travel and work with these people and be educated..Last year I was working in a Huge building on a project and we had a few Bangaldesh and Pakistani workers..This one Pakistani came from a very conservative background..and his opinion of westerners was bad..he was brainwashed as to what to expect..with in 2 weeks i taught this man many things on how to work and educated him and took time to show him how to improve his work ethic....This man cried when I left..I changed his opinion of what he was taught about us...
Now, on the flip side of this I cannot stand hypocrites..and I have to say there are many in religion, many in the muslim religion..and it bugs me when I see these guys praying 5 times a day..beating their wives..abusing children..beating and raping their maid and so it goes on...i also work in hospitals I can can tell you some very disturbing stories..we are all individual, but do not hide behind something when you are responsible for your own actions..
But in general the good far out way the bad here in the Middle east..so friendly and welcoming.
I love the UK but when I see the Jeremy Kyle show I think..is this what we are in the UK !!!
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