How do you measure success in a man ?..question fo
What does being successful mean to you?Do you have a way to measure success in your life?
People measure success in many different ways and on many different levels. When setting goals in life, it’s important that we identify what success means to us personally, so that when we succeed we will know it.
For example, most people measure success in business according to their income; however this may not be an accurate assessment. If your business efforts provide a substantial monetary reward but you don’t enjoy what you do, can this really be called success?
So my question is, do you look for finical success in men to be able to provide..or does it run much deeper than that, maybe a good listener..someone who understands you. a great father to your children.
Here in the middle east i see that good education is a must..to be able to get the best job you can to provide. This more often than not means your a suit wearer..work in an establishment that commands respect.
Your thoughts
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I feel success is gauged by the individual...you should not allow anyone else define how successful or not you are.
At least I don´t have that problem as I don´t have a man in my life, nor in my bed..
And, in case you´re feeling "frisky" in the middle of the night, you could always go and wake him up?
Then you could both have a "successful" relationship that way?
Someone can be good at his job/business without having studied but simply worked hard and has goals in life he pursues and achieved. Who has things that are important in his life and he doesn't live in the pub.
Someone who does well in life and enjoys it in every sense.
So, only you can say whether you are success or not...
to me.... material is not a measurement of a success, yes there is something deeper than that.... which we cant tell.
It's more about what the person wants. What I want at the moment, which in fact may differ,vary from day to day, month to month, year to year. I may not want the same things in a year from now, 10, 20... Because we base our goals on our needs and interests - basic needs and others and those change. Priorities change.
In most cases, when people reach those goals, when they did what was needed for them to satisfy their needs and had even more than they ever wanted, they afterwards want something else. They're not satisfied with what they have at the moment. And there you go. You wake up one day and you have what people call middle age crisis. And these days, my friend, middle age crisis hits you early, when you're young in your 20s and... it may continue, like, for life. So being happy in the meantime might be your biggest achievement from that moment on.
I would suggest you to read The Red book from Jung. You'll find it in pdf on internet. It's an interesting read.