let me tell you a story.
A young couple get married..and find out they cant have children the natural way..so they look at the other options...luckiiy there were.IVF..after much consultation and advice they go thorough the process..and after one embryo that fertilises, they have on in a millilon chance and 9 months later a son is born...After 2 years they decided they would like more, but after 4 attempts and 1,000's of pounds it doesn't work..so they realise they will only have one child. 9 years pass and the couple encounter the usual strains of marriage until one day the wife says to the husband..I dont love you any more..his world feel apart..he lost his family and al he had worked for so he felt..
However after 2 months the wife announces shes pregnant, and they decide the best thing was to get back together and bring up this new born together..but in this guys mind was a nagging doubt..was it his ?..9 months later the child was born...a baby girl..life was good. But still this guy had a nagging doubt..was this child his ?
In the end he had to know and did a DNA,without anyone else knowing the DNA results arrive on a Friday, the day before the Christening of his daughter..he opens it up to see the results. The next day the christening happened and it was time for the speech from the child's father..to explain how miricles can happen..as he pulls th speech from his pocket. he opens the letter..and says " i was going to make a speech of how I was so happy that we have a daughter to compliment our fmiy..but I cant..I have a letter in front of me saying this girl is not mine..the DNA results prove it..so ill hand you over to th mother to explain it...
As you can imagine they split up..its now been 6 years for that couple..his ex wife gets married tomorrow and this man will sign documents so her new husband can adopt that child..this guy is happy for the new couple, they are very happy..and its final closure of what has been a difficult period seeing a girl that you thought was yours.. taken away..
that man ?...was me..
Comments (20)
Iam sorry you went through that...to have a marriage break up is bad enough...then to lose out being a father...
I am sorry to hear about this! On a positive note, I am glad that you have moved on with your life!
Good for you...glad you have moved on...here's to the future and what it brings!!
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Take Care :)
In life we can give the best of ourselves to love one but there is no guranty that "what goes around - will come around" the same way from the one we expect.However I believe that good some how comes back around from who and where we don't expect ...
It's good for you to move forward and turn over new page of life as it's waist of time to wonder about past choices we make.
I know aquintence of my who is divorced and has 20 years old son that he knows for long time that he is not the boy father but would not tell him or his ex - as to him it's his son by heart and bringing him up.
We are all different and I think you made the right choice as child also has the right to know who is her real father,as well there is no point staying in relationship that doesn't have mutual love and care. Take care.
That story is awful...you are definately the lucky one...I am not going to complain now...better off single!!