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Where does one go to find love?

It all depends on what love means to you. Love can mean a feeling you feel when eating a decadent chocolate dessert so rich in flavor that words could never express a love for such an incredibly delicious tasty treat or it could mean an undying affection for someone who is yet to find out that their very presence causes heart palpitations that never seem to end when they walk by. Love is all around us and yet some are still seeking to find it. Maybe it is like that pot of gold at the end of every rainbow, knowingly avail ably but never realistically obtainable or it may be within reach, close by, next door or right beside us. No matter where love is found, the end result should only be the beginning to a happier and more fulfilled life. No one should be without it.

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There are no steps to go through in finding love and there is no time frame in finding it. However, when searching to find what mankind has longed to have and hold forever unto eternity, it is best found from first looking within. Before setting out on a quest to find where love resides, think about what would make someone love you!

You might think you know what love is and you might have an inclination where to find it because you overheard the other day that there is a new love in town. But, before you go out to love and conquer, take time to find out first what love is. Once you understand better what it is, then finding it will make it a whole lot easier.

Love can be a flower, a book, a place, a feeling, a smell a taste a beautiful picture or a culmination of several things. Love can be a song, a child, a color, an animal or a cloud that takes shape in the sky. Love is different for everyone and sometimes love is far away. Love can laugh and love can cry and love can be in every day. But, no matter where love lives, when it is found, it will never go away.

The best place to find love is deep within. Who knows, love might just find you!

All my love is for you!

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Women Needs

You’ve probably seen this, but I think its funny and must share.

DAMNITOL
Take 2 and the rest of the world can go to hell for up to 8 full hours.

EMPTYNESTROGEN
Suppository that eliminates melancholy and loneliness by reminding you of how awful they were as teenagers and how you couldn’t wait till they moved out!

PEPTOBIMBO
Liquid silicone drink for single women. Two full cups swallowed before an evening out increases breast size, decreases intelligence, and prevents conception.

DUMBEROL
When taken with Peptobimbo, can cause dangerously low IQ, resulting in enjoyment of country music and pickup trucks.

FLIPITOR
Increases life expectancy of commuters by controlling road rage and the urge to flip off other drivers.

MENICILLIN
Potent anti-boy-otic for older women. Increases resistance to such lethal lines as, ‘You make me want to be a better person.

BUYAGRA
Injectable stimulant taken prior to shopping. Increases potency, duration, and credit limit of spending spree.

JACKASSPIRIN
Relieves headache caused by a man who can’t remember your birthday, anniversary, phone number, or to lift the toilet seat

ANTI-TALKSIDENT
A spray carried in a purse or wallet to be used on anyone too eager to share their life stories with total strangers in elevators.

NAGAMENT
When administered to a boyfriend or husband, provides the same irritation level as nagging him, without opening your mouth .

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Why Women Love Men

Recently I've got a mail - my newsletter from Paulo Coelho. The topic was so interesting so I could not skip sharing it with you:) So, the topic was: "Why We Love Men?" There are lots of discussions on the web and lots of different opinions.

Should we explain our love? Why not? Especially if it is so funny;)

So here it is - a list, collected by Paulo Coelho:

Because they never comment on what the neighbors might think.

Because we always know what they are thinking, and when they open their mouth they say exactly what we imagined they would.

Because they never dreamed of torturing themselves wearing high heels.

Because they are like pomegranates: most of them is impossible to digest, but the seeds are delicious.

Because they love to explore our body and conquer our soul.

Because they are always attracted by extremes: the opulent or the ascetic, warriors or monks, artists or generals.

Because they do absolutely everything possible to try to hide their weaknesses.

Because they always eat everything on their plate, and don’t feel guilty about it.

Because a man’s biggest fear is not being a man (it never crosses a woman’s mind not to be a woman).

Because they take great delight in completely uninteresting matters, such as what happened at work, or different makes of automobiles.

Because they are at peace with their bodies, except for small, insignificant things like growing bald and getting fat.

Because they have shoulders where we can rest our heads and sleep without much effort.

Because they are incredibly courageous in front of insects.

Because they never lie about their age.

Because despite everything they try to demonstrate, they can’t live without a woman.

Because when we tell one of them “I love you”, they always ask us to explain exactly how.

And one more

We truly love them, because they make us feel feminine, because they are the mirrors that reflect our beauty, because they are the half's that make our life complete!

Yeah right!

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This is a wonderful story of true love!

This is a wonderful story of true love. Enjoy!

Shmily

My grandparents were married for over half a century, and played their own special game from the time they had met each other. The goal of their game was to write the word "shmily" in a surprise place for the other to find. They took turns leaving "shmily" around the house, and as soon as one of them discovered it, it was their turn to hide it once more. They dragged "shmily" with their fingers through the sugar and flour containers to await whoever was preparing the next meal. They smeared it in the dew on the windows overlooking the patio where my grandma always fed us warm, homemade pudding with blue food coloring. "Shmily" was written in the steam left on the mirror after a hot shower, where it would reappear bath after bath. At one point, my grandmother even unrolled an entire roll of toilet paper to leave "shmily" on the very last sheet.

There was no end to the places "shmily" would pop up. Little notes with "shmily" scribbled hurriedly were found on dashboards and car seats, or taped to steering wheels. The notes were stuffed inside shoes and left under pillows. "Shmily" was written in the dust upon the mantel and traced in the ashes of the fireplace.

This mysterious word was as much a part of my grandparents' house as the furniture. It took me a long time before I was able to fully appreciate my grand-parents' game. Skepticism has kept me from believing in true love-one that is pure and enduring. However, I never doubted my grandparents' relationship. They had love down pat.It was more than their flirtatious little games; it was a way of life. Their relationship was based on a devotion and passionate affection which not everyone is lucky to experience. Grandma and Grandpa hold hands every chance they could. They stole kisses as they bumped into each other in their tiny kitchen.

They finished each other's sentences and shared the daily crossword puzzle and word jumble..

My grandma whispered to me about how cute my grandpa was, how handsome and old he had grown to be. She claimed that she really knew "how to pick 'em."

Before every meal they bowed their heads and gave thanks, marveling at their blessings: a wonderful family, good fortune, and each other. But there was a dark cloud in my grandparents' life: my grandmother had breast cancer. The disease had first appeared ten years earlier. As always, Grandpa was with her every step of the way. He comforted her in their yellow room, painted that way so that she could always be surrounded by sunshine, even when she was too sick to go outside. Now the cancer was again attacking her body.

With the help of a cane and my grandfather's steady hand, they went to church every morning. But my grandmother grew steadily weaker until, finally, she could not leave the house anymore. For a while, Grandpa would go to church alone, praying to God to watch over his wife.

Then one day, what we all dreaded finally happened. Grandma was gone. "Shmily." It was scrawled in yellow on the pink ribbons of my grandmother's funeral bouquet. As the crowd thinned and the last mourners turned to leave, my aunts, uncles, cousins and other family members came forward and gathered around Grandma one last time. Grandpa stepped up to my grandmother's casket and, taking a shaky breath, he began to sing to her. Through his tears and grief, the song came, a deep and throaty lullaby. Shaking with my own sorrow, I will never forget that moment. For I knew that, although I couldn't begin to fathom the depth of their love, I had been privileged to witness its unmatched beauty.

S-h-m-i-l-y: See How Much I Love You.

By Laura Jeanne Allen

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Build A Box Of Friendship!

Into a box of friendship
To insure that it is strong
First a layer of respect
On the bottom does belong.

Then to the sides attach,
In the corners where they meet,
Several anchors full of trust,
Devoid of all deceit.

The height of friendship can be measured
By the sides of four,
So make them all a larger cut,
And the box will hold much more.

Now fill it up with courtesy,
Honor and esteem,
Understanding, sympathy,
And passion for a dream.

Add to that your honesty,
Emotions joy and love,
And since they are so important,
Place them up above

But leave the box wide open
So all can see inside,
To learn what makes a friendship work
From the box you built with pride.

LOVE, HUGS, AND LAUGHTER...THE BEST MEDICINE...

Thank you "Running Horse"

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Intellectual Joke ~ Once all the scientists ...

Once all the scientists die and go to heaven............
They decide to play hide-n-seek.........Unfortunately Einstein is the one who has the den...........He is supposed to count up to 100...and then start searching.....

Everyone starts hiding except Newton.........
Newton just draws a square of 1 meter and stands in it right in front of Einstein...........

Einstein's counting
1,2,3......97,98,99.....100........ He opens his eyes and finds Newton standing in front........

Einstein says "newton's out..newton's....out....."
Newton denies and says i am not out........
He claims that he is not Newton......

All the scientists come out to see how he proves that he is not Newton..........

Newton says "I am standing in a square of area 1m squared..... That makes me Newton per meter squared...... since one Newton per meter squared is one Pascal, I'm Pascal, Therefore Pascal is OUT...........!

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Husband and Wife "SENSE OF HUMOR"

Wife: Honey..... What are You Looking for?
Husband: Nothing.
Wife: Nothing...?? You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour??
Husband: I was just looking 4 the expiry date.

Q - What is the Difference between Mother & Wife?
A - One Woman Brings you into this world crying... and the other ensures you continue to do so.

Wife: Do you want dinner?
Husband: Sure, what are my choices?
Wife: Yes and no.

Wife: You always carry my photo in your handbag to the office. Why?
Husband: When there is a problem, no matter how impossible, I look at your picture and the problem disappears.
Wife: You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you?
Husband: Yes, I see your picture and say to myself, "What other problem can there be greater than this one?"

Girl: When we get married, I want to share all your worries, troubles and lighten your burden.
Boy: It's very kind of you, darling, but I don't have any worries or troubles.
Girl: Well that's because we aren't married yet.

Son: Mom, when I was on the bus with Dad this morning, he told me to give up my seat to a lady.
Mom: Well, you have done the right thing.
Son: But mum, I was sitting on daddy's lap.

A newly married man asked his wife, "Would you have married me if my father hadn't left me a fortune?""Honey," the woman replied sweetly, "I'd have married you NO MATTER WHO LEFT YOU the FORTUNE"

Father to son after exam: "let me see your report card."
Son: "My friend just borrowed it. He wants to scare his parents."

Interviewer to Millionaire: To whom do you owe your success as a millionaire? "Millionaire: "I owe everything to my wife."
Interviewer: "Wow, she must be some woman. What were you before you married
Millionaire: "Billionaire"

Girl to her boyfriend: One kiss and I'll be yours forever
The guy replies: Thanks for the warning. Hahahahaha

A wife asked her husband: "What do you like most in me my pretty face or my sexy body?"
He looked at her from head to toe and replied: "I like your sense of humor".

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Possible Origins of Kissing

Interesting /msg I just recieved:

Despite the fact that while you're doing it, it seems perfectly natural, kissing is actually a learned behavior. The first documented kissing behavior appears in India and Europe around 2000 BC; faces were brought together, noses and faces rubbing together in a gesture of union. The practitioners of this in India believed that the exhaled breath of their partner was part of their soul. By being close enough to share breath, they were intimately intermingling their souls.

Around 1000 BC, an Indian text was written which contained references to kissing as we know now being used to express affection between lovers. Later, around the 6th century AD, the Kama Sutra documented techniques of lip kissing fully.

The Greeks were probably the first Europeans to take up the practice, and it spread throughout the empire. It survived through the Middle Ages, where the Church decided that kissing "in reverence of God" was okay, but kissing for pleasure was a venal sin and kissing with intent to fornicate was a mortal sin.

So, if It's a Purely Learned Social Construction, Why Do We Dig It So Much?

There are a few theories. The first fits with the assumption that a lot of behavior engaged in while in love is regression to childhood behavior in a subconscious attempt to appear youthful to your mate. Many cultures engage in premastication of food for children; mothers will chew a tough piece of food unto a paste and then place it in their child's mouth in a kiss-like action. In Central Europe, there exists a tradition where a man will place a piece of tobacco between his front teeth, then invite a woman to take it from him by mouth in a symbol of love. The practice can be traced to before the introduction of tobacco in the 17th century, replacing the plug of tobacco with pitch or resin.

The catch with this theory is that premastication is very widespread in human cultures, while kissing is present in few cultures which have not had contact with western culture. What I think is that it's a learned behavior which happens to turn on a bunch of instinctive stuff in our monkey brains. When kissing you are so close you can very carefully smell them, which helps us decide if this person is healthy and expresses the right genes to ensure future familial happiness. Lovers tasting each other's saliva get an even more detailed view of their significant other's health and genotype.

Kiss, kissing, smooches, whatever! A lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.

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Women on top ~ The Silent Treatment

A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each
other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day,
he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 AM for an early morning business flight.
Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper,
"Please wake me at 5:00 AM " He left it where he knew she would find it.
The next morning, the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM
and he had missed his flight. Furious, he was about to go and
see why his wife hadn't wakened him, when he noticed a piece of paper by
the bed. The paper said, "It is 5:00 AM. Wake up."
Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.

WIFE VS. HUSBAND
A couple drove down a country road for several miles, not saying a word. An earlier discussion had led to an argument and neither of them wanted to concede their position. As they passed a barnyard of mules, goats, and pigs, the husband asked sarcastically, "Relatives of yours?"
"Yep," the wife replied , " in-laws"

WOMEN REVENGE
"Cash, check or charge?" I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase.
As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse.
"So, do you always carry your TV remote?" I asked.
"No," she replied, " but my husband refused to come shopping with me, and I figured this was the most evil thing I could do to him legally."

W O R D S
A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day...30,000 to a man's 15,000.
The wife replied, "The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men...
The husband then turned to his wife and asked, "What?"

CREATION
A man said to his wife one day, "I don't know how you can be
so stupid and so beautiful all at the same time.
" The wife responded, "Allow me to explain.
God made me beautiful so you would be attracted to me;
God made me stupid so I would be attracted to you!

God may have created man before woman,
but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece.

SEND THIS TO SMART WOMEN WHO NEED A LAUGH AND TO MEN
YOU THINK CAN HANDLE IT !

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Women Lower Body Temperature ~ Desire to Cuddle

Women_are_colder_than_men. In an official poll done among my friends it was determined that women, in general, are at least two degrees cooler than men at any given time. Women also tend to have poorer circulation, which means feet and hands are often seven to eight degrees cooler than the rest of the body.

As a result of this overall “cool” factor it can only be explained that women like to cuddle more not because they are needy, but rather because they are just darn cold. Many men will argue this assertion stating that women need too much “attention” and that they really are just “needy.” But we here are Dating Tales disagree and here are a few scientific facts to back up the assertion.

Fact One: Muscles are dense with veins and therefore have more cozy life juice moving around in them. Men have more muscles than women and are therefore warmer.

Fact Two: Heat production is figured by volume and heat dissipation is figured by surface area. In other words, the bigger you are the more heat you produce and the less heat you lose. Teeny weeny women really are too small to produce a lot of heat.

Moral of the story is that the next time a woman feels compelled to put her icy, cold feet on your warm buttocks it’s not because she is in need of your love, it’s because she’s friggin’ cold. Help a lady out.

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Find a way to be thankful

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don't know something,
for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times.
During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations,
because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge,
because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes.
They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you're tired and weary,
because it means you've made a effort.

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,
and they can become your blessings!

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Dating as Defined By Wikipedia

Un-friggin believable. Dating has a proper definition on Wikipedia, and not a short one either. I’m particularly impressed by the reference to “virtual dating” and “text messaging.”

Here’s part of it:

“Dating is the act of going out on dates whereby one person socializes with a potential lover using a process that involves scheduled, usually exclusive, meetings of two people with mutual interest in one another. Typically a person may date different partners (this does not include or indicate the s*xual relationship) during the same time period in order to have the best chance of finding their most suitable and available partner for an intimate relationship. A date involves going out to do something together (like having dinner, visiting the theater, or having a picnic at a park or beach), while dating involves the continued communication and courting between dates, such as meeting on-line (also known as virtual dating), chatting on-line, sending text messages or picture messages, and conversing over the phone. In this sense, during the dating process, people often explore each other through “dates” to discover whether or not they would be compatible together in a serious relationship - which for many people involves the s*xual component but depends on individual beliefs. Usually, if the two individuals discover that they have poor or low compatibility, it signals the end of the dating process: however, due to the multiple person dating strategy a person ideally has other options to explore.”

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Where does one go to find love?

Women Needs

Why Women Love Men

This is a wonderful story of true love!

Build A Box Of Friendship!

Intellectual Joke ~ Once all the scientists ...

Husband and Wife "SENSE OF HUMOR"

Possible Origins of Kissing

Women on top ~ The Silent Treatment

Women Lower Body Temperature ~ Desire to Cuddle

Find a way to be thankful

Dating as Defined By Wikipedia

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