Always try to FEEL GOOD about yourself (physically and mentally) before you leave your house to your place of work or wherever it is you are going.The truth is,even when you don't look really good but you FEEL GOOD about yourself,it brings out confidence,positive thinking and to a very large extent comfort.
But when you don't,the number of compliments you get that day will never change a thing.
So,start FEELING GOOD about yourself
I wanna wish every one on CS a Happy Easter Celebration.
Keep loving as much as love permits!!!
Adios....
My brother is currently in a relationship and it's looks too perfect for my liking(at least on the outside).I know it's good to have a wonderful relationship without fights and curses but something is different in theirs.
Sometimes i sense tension and raw anger building up between them but they end up shying away from it.But those questions left unanswered,all those anger cleverly concealed,all those matters partially resolved and sometimes resolved with biased judgements all in the name of building a relationship they wish will end in marriage and still there.
If you ask me,i think those misunderstandings and temper-boiling topics should be trashed once and for all and flushed down the drain.There is nothing like a perfect relationship.If tempers should flair,there is no better time than now!
I always wish him the best,yes and i always will.But honestly,i think those topics are going to resurface later in their marriage(thats if they end up getting married)and i think it's going to have strong roots then...
I just took a bold step to put an end to disappiontments.
So many opportunities i've missed cos i was ignorant when it came knocking.
But from now on,i'm leaving my door fully open 24/7.So opportunities don't have to knock or go back cos i didn't hear it call.
Why don't you do thesame....................
Countless times,i've seen first dates & even blind dates end up with a sour taste.Just because they failed to get it right!
This is basically for the guys cos i simply want to bring to your knowlegde,what you are in that lady's eyes.
You are the first impression you make.
Someone once said,the feeling a lady gets when she sees you for the first time,will be the feeling she'll always have about you.Men never get a second chance to make a first impression.You turn off the shower,tie your shoe lace,wear a nice spray & forget to buy her flower.Or you come wearing a nice suit,but to the waiters you're so rude & you end up chewing so loudly!That's the picture she's going to get of you.THE RUDE,LOUD CHEWER.
It happens everywhere.Sitting so close to her,you remain quiet,waiting for her to do the talking.Why not talk the talk?Say it as you feel it cos it might be you only chance.It all depends on you.This conversation aspect is very common here on CS.You get an unexpected mail from someone trying to start up a conversation & you don't even know the right thing to say.With that short reply,you turn her off,all becos your first impression was nothing to write home about.
What i've come to realise(especially on CS) is that when a lady sends you a mail for the first time,she's not intrested in 'any reply' or ' a common reply'.She's only intrested in what is between those lines.No matter how long/short your reply is,it will speak for you.If she sends you another message after that,you'll know your reply turned her on.But if she doesn't,sorry.Just don't show her your face next time she comes on.
So please,never blow it up!
Your first impression is your last in the eyes of a woman....
Yeah!
Christmas is already at out backyards & i just want us to share what we really want for christmas.
What gifts are you expecting?how many of them do you think you'll get?What are those things you wish for but you know you'll never get?
Let's share,folks!
Have you ever been stunned by your friend's attitude.You find yourself completely speechless with your legs rooted to the ground when you suddenly see him do something new.That was exactly how i felt on the 19th of this month.
It was a sunday & after church service,a friend of mine(Eddy) suggested we should go see a friend of ours(Courage).It's been a bit long since we last saw him(about 3 months) & he just came home for christmas.We saw him at home,had a good time & decided to stroll out.We got to a relaxation area & Courage slowly approached me for some cash.I saw a little boy behind him,so i thought he wanted to help the boy with some money.But when i gave him,he gave the boy & the boy jogged out only to return with a Cigar!!don't get me wrong,i not here to debate if cigar is good or not.But i swear,i was shocked!Courage had always been a good & quiet guy.But as i watched the cigar move to his lips & a matchbox coming out of his pocket,with my legs rooted to the ground & my gazed fixed on anything else but him,it suddenly struck me how much this friend had changed.Then,it occured to me that i was going to watch him smoke for the first time,the cigar he bought with my money.The reality suddenly gave me a running stomach!but just as if Eddy(who was standing closer to him)read my thoughts,he swiftly retrieved the cigar from Courage's lips & crushed it.My God,i was so relieved!
Later on my way home,i replayed the event & something inside suddenly asked me,'how well do you know your friends?'.In all areas how well can you boost of your friend?The friend you see today may be a changed person tomorrow.Just 3 months & he changed in almost everything.Take time to study your friends & see what they have under those sleeves.
It may suprise you...
Something happened on my way home last night that i still can't get off my mind.i found myself in a difficult & helpless situation that really got me worried.i was kind of held on a lonely road for certain actions i took that were not in my favour.i was hungry & damn tired & all i wanted was to go home,take a bath & find the pillows.but right there where i was held,i had a strange sensation of dread that i might not even get home!
Still in that helpless state,i stood up & politely expressed my desire to clear myself of such a mess.that was the key-communication.now,it wasn't just mere talking.it's getting to building an instant relationship of trust with people who could hurt you any minute.there is something in everyone of us that can change situations & people's convictions concerning us.in a helpless situation,try not to be rude.you don't have to show or flex your muscles everytime you find yourself in a dark corner.just communication!effective communication builds trust.the fact is,people watch you from a distance but most times,we're ignorant of this fact.you may be held & all they want from you is to express yourself.but instead of you expressing yourself,you remain silent.do you know what your silence can cost you?it hardens the convictions they have concerning you.just talk.just laugh.just try to keep the conversation going.just try to forget you're in danger.that's the key to escaping such situations.
Express yourself.
Communicate wisely...
If someone had told me before i went to bed last night that my sleep wouldn't last up to 2 hours,i'm damn sure i would have had my greatest laugh of the month.but that was exactly what happened last night.from the bottom of my heart,i never expected such an unwanted,terrifying emergency.now don't get me wrong cos this has nothing to do with a lady or my profession.it's about something i really don't feel like saying right here.
But it turned out horrible.i was having a very peaceful sleep in the middle of a chilly,quiet night.it was the kind of sleep where it feels like u're completely lost in space and it seems u've been sleeping for ages.well,i was brought back from that 'space-like' world when someone suddenly jerked my arm & i was once again faced with life's realities.
I checked my watch & realised i had barely slept for an hour and half!!wow!that was strange.from the look of things around me,i quickly concluded that the remaining hours of the night won't be nice,and so it happened.
Now,i don't know if u've ever found yourself in such an unexpected,sad & difficult situation where u're suddenly woken to undergo an unpleasant task in a freezing,silent night (like in my case).or someone wakes you to deliver a sad news.how does it feel?only those that have been there can see it from my point of view.
In the end,i had to sacrifice the rest of the night just to fulfill my task.i just finished.& since it's now a little bit difficult to sleep,i decided to spend some time here,publish this encounter before trying to sleep again.
I'm feeling dizzy now....
Hi everybody,i just want 2 share this b4 going 2 bed.is there anything as 'love at first sight'?i'm not asking u 2 jump to unrealistic conclusions.i want answers based on experience.cos so often,u here people 'abuse' dat line all in the name of lust.though we see happen in almost all the movies we watch,don't u think love has something more to it than 'first sight'?how can u instantly fall in love with someone whose character is anonymous to u.based on what grounds do u instantly fall in love?is it the fear of being alone?or the burning urge for someone to satisfy ur s*xual desires?what about ur goals,likes,dislikes,hobbies and passion?are they similar to that of ur 'sighted love'?i think it has more 2 do with lust for the appearance than what people mistake it for-(love).
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