Looking for the right one

How come some women say they want a good man that loves them and cares for them, but when a good man comes in their life, the woman gives the man their old baggage. I don't understand. Now I am sure some women feel like I do, but for now lets please talk about my point of view. Thank you. I honestly believe two people can be together understanding what needs to be done for them to be happy for the rest of their life. That's just how I feel. teddybear
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Hey Taurus, the title says.. Looking for the right one.. How could that happened, when you are with the wrong one.. Lolyay
There is no such thing as right one.
I believed establishing the right relationship for both to be right to each other...
dunno
I don’t want a good man.

I just need a man that buys me Tieks. Lots of Tieks. smitten

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I must be unique ..I've never ever said I want a man to love and care for me laugh
mimi wave wave you have a very good man peace
Niether have i Merc someone to share lies ups and downs mend my plumbing laugh laugh etc but that is dreaming laugh laugh
lifes LIFES ups and downs my finger slipped again laugh
Yeah read..Just want our plumbing seen to..That's not asking for much laugh
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He’s ok as long as he buys me Tieks! rolling on the floor laughing

He’s so gonna kill me now! uh oh
Yep what is tieks grin he is a gent teddybear
Tikis?
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Shoes. Very comfy ballet flats.

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Merc rolling on the floor laughing

I don’t want no tikis!!!

We already have them tiki torches at the backyard. grin
Ooooooooooooh shoes..I was thinking of those little carved things laugh
Tiki torches are so romantic daydream laugh
Merc

It’s getting cold where you’re at, no?

No more lovely maxis for you then?
It's Autumn but have had lovely days..Today wasn't nice but they say warm days ahead..I hate the cold..

How is the weather where you are?
The weather here in the Midwest is so unpredictable, just like MiMi’s temperament! laugh

It was nice mid last week but during the weekend, it was very windy! For once I’m glad I’m overweight, so that I won’t be blown awayyyyyyyy!! grin
And choose your words wisely. I don't mean evasive, elusive is the word. Tell her something she doesn't see coming from a mile away.
There are ups and downs too, just like any other relationships. MiMi is not an easy person to live with, with her ever changing moods and jealousy uh oh and now with her never-ending ailments help

Anyway, thanks for your nice comment, Merc hug teddybear bouquet
You all have a very good sense of humor laugh but all I am trying to say, as I watch and at times experience for myself, the very woman that always ask for the good man, end up treating him wrong. Not all women I'm sure. I just wanted to hear what others have to say about that point of view. Oh, In no way am I perfect, I make and made mistakes, but I have a good heart and spirit for the right woman. sad flower
Mimi ups and downs are normal especially moving from an environment you've known all your life..You made a huge sacrifice because all you feel for the love of your life..Arty is probably use to he's ways as well..The best things is whilst on the downs your love and respect for one another never waivers..That will never change..

I went through a phase.. Thinking if I ever found myself interested enough in a man here in Australia..I wouldn't live with him..It's never going to happen but yes that was a silly phase I once went through.

I hope your ailments improve hug

teddybear
In the end, you'll have to accept what's available or do without. Complaining won't help.
With a broad brush there are two types of men in this world - those who need to do more hard work and those that need to be more hard work. The womaniser and the workhorse respectively.

When woman says be a good man they're talking to the serpents. A woman is better than all other women when her beauty could turn the devil himself. She wants what she can't have because that's what every other woman wants and to get what no other woman can is what Queen bee is. No woman wants a man that no other woman wants, this would make her feel like a bottomfeeder.
It's not about having no baggage and it's not about just carrying your own in a partnership.

The difficulty is is knowing how to be a baggage handler, of our own and other people's.

I really think emotional welfare should be taught in schools from a very young age as part of the curriculum, rather than some people being lucky enough to learn by chance and others not.

How can we be expected to handle everything maturely if we don't have enough experience, or education in these matters?
And yet in a way that's why you're not to do. You might be a beggar but you don't beg, a man individually overcomes tremendous odds that allow beggars to become choosers. His self-control matches her simply not being interested. There's a difference masculine self-control and the apathy of women.
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