One more for the road.....

...and they say women are complicated!

On one hand male friends complain that some women are just to vague about how they feel and what they want....think they're playing hard to get, no? Or just being evasive......

But then on the other hand, men get mad or flake out when a woman is blatantly honest about what she wants and how she feels....

Well damn....

So which is it?

Is it just me or do men just not see what is right in front of them, regardless of circumstance.

I'd hardly believe it would be a language barrier....or is it confused doh

moping conversing
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What is the question again?
Ayep.....must be that language barrier doh roll eyes
Language? If he don't come running he prolly don't fancy you.
It happens to me on regular basis, so welcome to the club. drinking
question is easy..do you want us to be honest or do you want us to be quiet?
Really now, Luv....you know better than that laugh laugh laugh wink bouquet
Exactly, hpy, thank you wine
Luv, what is one to do with you laugh
My exe's preferred honest but then they'd quit listening. So they really preferred quite.
oh wait ..unless I agreed with them and gave them tons of accolades, then they couldn't get enough.
Right, hpy ....ya see....they’re more complicated than we are dunno doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
wave wave wave conversing
Language barrier??? It's right in front of you... The woman mind is like an ocean with unpredicted waves that troubles the heart of a man for the heart of a man is war warehouse that accommodate and adjust to the need of a woman regardless the time and scenario... yawn wink
Right....well I suppose that would make sense confused wink bouquet
I'm a man. I'm simple and I must admit I don't understand what this blog is about.
I prefer a woman to be honest and upfrint and direct, as dircet as possible please.

All these games an unclearties... do we really have time for that?
I feel I don't. Life is short. I remember Rod Stewart was pretty direct about it too.
A song about being attracted to each other and letting it show.

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Upfront, Direct.

D fens laugh
Yes, but again....I'm one of those that is very direct....very upfront....and honest to a fault. But that causes men to get mad when I speak my thoughts and feelings....say if something bothers me, even. Yet, men don't like it when women are unclear and evasive. So, either way, seems I can't win no matter what I do dunno confused doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ....good song reference, by the way wine
Some men roll eyes
Don't like women to fall into their laps, they'd rather fantasies about having them over them, instead.

For some, the thrill of the chase is exactly that, nothing else... nothing more.

Between you and me conversing
I've not yet met a dreamer who hasn't turned out to be a nightmare ....

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...and yet, if ya don't fall into their laps, they get annoyed with that too....trust me, male friends have confided that frustration with me about other women. So there's no pleasing either way dunno ....and well, at 50 years old I am so tired of that chase....in my younger years, it was a toxic thrill...but now it's like slow down, I need to rest for a moment doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
....hm maybe.....but I much rather it be Friday again confused laugh
The problem is in this Nursery rhyme:

Girls/Women are made of sugar, and spice, and everything nice.
Boys/Men are made of frogs, and snails, and crocodile tails.

Another problem could be boys/men are unable to process relationship hurts and to recover from it.
dunno
And sometimes maybe they need women to understand them better, I guess dunno ....as different as we are, there has to be a happy medium sigh wave
@hpy
The women in my life have all been loud, opinionated and assertive - unshutuppable one and all. But then I do seek them out that way!
Nowadays, that's standard. Probably it has been for the last 2 or 3 generations at least.

I'm good with that. I wouldn't want a woman without an opinion and a mind of her own. That would be a bit like dating your dog. The problem is that many take it overboard and they essentially become men. A bit of a turn off.
They love to tell us we forget emotions in bed.
What you just said is our variante/need. But not everybody get it.

I had a friend fro Mallorca here in Norway and he broke up with his Norwegian gf
cos he felt she was too bossy.
They even had a kid together, but he went back home, he just had to.
I Imagine how she was to him. not bad at all.
But you know, the last sweet part was missing for him, you know?
To him she must have felt like a collegue.
Bye lady. I figured I’d pop in before I delete my profile and say farewell. I’m no longer interested in this site. I prefer the apps to be honest. Going the route my sister is on. Have fun and stay positive! wave

P.S. Someone from the blog section did write to me but he’s not in my Country. Such a bummer. Part of the reason why I want to be on apps. You can connect with someone closer to you.
Aww don't leave so soon....not everyone is dishonest here, though there are some no matter where ya go....and, well, maybe that someone who wrote to you had his sights on someone else?dunno anything is possible...but there are others here that may see ya differently. Either way, be well wine
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