The drunk.. is. honestly the honest.
The... Honest people are kind hearted people they won't think bad for others.“Honesty is important because it creates peace of mind and promotes relationships of trust.
The benefits of honesty extend to personal health, relationships and society at large. The opposite, lying, leads to distrust, conflict, corruption and anxiety.”.
I am not a Saint. At all. I just haven’t been convinced yet that i should lie…
I'm not ashamed of myself for anything. Nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to hide and nothing to lie about.
what about white lies?
white lie.... helps. why
because.... i cannot
say....
“I don't care about other people's feelings, if they can't take the truth, that's their problem.”
The thing is, people's feelings DO MATTER. Caring about other people's feelings is called compassion. Having compassion for others is a good quality. None of us live in a vacuum. We live in a community, we deal with people every day. In order to make this community work, we all need to be considerate. We all need to learn when to keep our mouth shut, when what we say doesn't help the situation and only hurts people.
Not caring about other people's feelings doesn't make you “cool", doesn't make you “independent" or “smart". It makes you a nonsense.
Time and time again, scientists have proven that given the opportunity to cheat, people will do it. Dan Ariely has studied this phenomenon extensively and concluded over and over again… people cheat all the time, but just a little.
Alcohol breaks down people’s inhibitions. They say and do things they would not otherwise do. So it is not unusual for a person to get drunk and verbalize thoughts that would have gone unspoken otherwise. Some people drink on purpose in order to create this effect, especially if they want to confess love to someone or say something else they are afraid to say. In this circumstance they often refer to the drink as “liquid courage.”
(
)so... i dont mind... my man
drinks... so... i can know the
real truth..
.. So we all are.. horrible people?.... No.
We just speak what comes to mind...
will be continued in the
comment section...
Comments (7)
I agree with you that once a person lies to you, all trust is gone.
We are also born liars and thieves. Yes called sinners.
A two year old child knows how to lie and steal, not something the mother taught it to do.
Of course, once we grow up, we are capable to make the decision to be honest or to lie.
White lies are lies, but at times a compassion for the other person can make us do it.
A friend showed me the dress she bought for a wedding, When I saw how her face showed how
happy she was with her purchase, I did not have the heart to tell her what I thought of her choice.......
All sobriety seems to come from brutal self assessments.
Or is it vice versa.
A man of few words..
okay...
I agree with you that once a person lies to you, all trust is gone.
We are also born liars and thieves. Yes called sinners.
A two year old child knows how to lie and steal, not something the mother taught it to do.
Of course, once we grow up, we are capable to make the decision to be honest or to lie.
White lies are lies, but at times a compassion for the other person can make us do it.
A friend showed me the dress she bought for a wedding, When I saw how her face showed how
happy she was with her purchase, I did not have the heart to tell her what I thought of her choice.......
dear friend ..
Hi pc..... my dear friend...
i agree with you...
i really have no idea of why
people drink.... i get scared
some of my friends get
drunk... and have no idea
of some hours what really
happened....
some of my good friends
likes my company... when
they drink...
because i am useful like a
sister(nurse)