Signs He Is Not For You
1. He doesn't put an effortRelationships require effort from both partners. If you're the one who is driving the relationship alone and your partner doesn't put any efforts, he is not the one for you. If there is a constant lack of communication, and you feel like your thoughts and feelings are not being acknowledged or valued, it can be a red flag. Putting in efforts is a two-sided road and if he is meeting you half way, think!
2. He ignores you
If you feel emotionally isolated or ignored and your partner doesn't truly understand or empathize with you, it can lead to a sense of disconnection. If you constantly feel neglected, he is not for you.
3. He doesn't trust you
Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship. If he doesn't trust you and is always doubting you, he is not for you. If he doesn't trust your decisions and your instincts and you feel sidelined, you should
4. He doesn't respect you
If he doesn't respect you and you face any form of abuse, whether emotional or physical, is a clear indication that the relationship is unhealthy and he is not right for you. Lack of respect is the biggest red flag and you should step out!
5. He makes you feel bad about yourself
If your partner consistently makes you feel bad about yourself, criticises you, or undermines your self-worth, it's a sign that he may not be the right person for you. A healthy relationship should uplift and support you, not bring you down or make you doubt your value and worth.
6. He belittles you in front of others
If he puts you down in front of his friends or family with his little jokes and disrespect, it could be a significant indicator that he may not be the right person for you. This shows he is not showing respect and appreciation towards you. This way he ends up giving others also the opportunity to disrespect you!
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Comments (8)
Another story if SHE tried it though.
She would say, "That boss of mine is real F-er!"
"My 4 ex-husbands are all a bunch of F-ers!"
And she also IGNORED ME TOO, after I paid the Dinner bill.
Oh well, I guess a person can't lose for winning.
#3 suites me just fine, I wouldn't either....
#6 well I don'tind losing a fight, but sure as he'll I'm going to give him a run for his money...
May the best man win.
** hell
Complications can easily arise. I've tried to understand studying Buddhist teachings and I have to admit I'm not skilled in the I love you business. I notice feminist groups blame males for their relationship woos and males blame females for crossing there legs etc etc, which they do do. I watched that process closely for three years once upon a time...Also other threads on CS (including mention of Trumps past by both sides. Personally I think the old marriage vows held quite a lot of merit the love, cherish and obey the husband bit because can only be one captain in charge of any ship or the lawyers get yeah !! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Anyway I've looked to see if i could find some qualified advice on the subject.
Do not cling to this life, which has SMALL BENEFIT AND GREAT DANGER. Always
make effort in the divine Dharma, which definitely benefits the entire
future. The Victorious Buddha advised: “Engage the activities of the
three doors for the sake of others, thus one’s own success is achieved
along the way.” There is no difference between male and female as
evil friends [of negative karma] who make you lose this and all future
lives – therefore throw them far away like a stone used for cleaning
your bottom. The virtuous friend and virtuous companion is the origi-
nator of qualities – therefore, correctly devote and dedicate yourself.
Pure morality and great wisdom are the main qualities – therefore,
you should know them. The great and lesser vehicle is just a way of
thinking – therefore, do not separate from bodhicitta. If you engage in
too much meaningless talk it becomes a basis for fighting – therefore,
limit your speech. If you create turmoil within a group of the sangha
then hell is the place you will go – therefore, be careful not to cause
disunity among the sangha.
Notes:
1. This implies that if you use the three doors just for the purpose of achieving hap-
piness for yourself, not only can it not be achieved, but the happiness of others
cannot be accomplished either. This is similar to the advice given by Shantideva
on the benefits of the awakening mind.
2. Not only does it waste this life, it makes you unable to achieve the temporary
happiness of future lives, as well as the ultimate happiness that is the liberation
from samsara and full enlightenment.
3. The Hinayana, Mahayana, Vajrayana systems as well as the four schools of Ti-
betan Buddhism.
Rebirth
This means that those beings who, even a year after dying, report that they have not found a birthplace
are not in the intermediate state but have taken birth as a spirit.
If taking rebirth as a human, one sees one’s future mother and father as if lying together. If one is to
be reborn as a male, this sight generates desire for the mother as well as hatred for the father—and vice
versa if one is to be reborn as a female. Being desirous, one rushes there to engage in copulation; but
upon arrival, one sees only the s*xual organ of the desired partner. This creates anger, which causes
cessation of the intermediate state and makes the connection to the new life. One has entered the
mother’s womb and begun a human life. When the father’s semen and mother’s blood are conjoined
with this life or consciousness, they naturally and gradually develop into the elements of a human