Pregnant while dating

Come on ladies, plse stop it, prevent it! Its bloody rude that women get pregnant and expect men to just accept it quitely. Why not wait for after marriage? Men how did it feel to know your girlfriend was expecting your baby when you were only just dating?
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lmao..."that women just get pregnant"...as if the do it all by themselves...men should take just as much responsiblity!get with the times!
sugar, she is right. You spread your own legs right? Woman, always want to blame the man for everything.
well unfortunatley these situations happen, prevention totally agree with,....but i dont agree females go running around and saying yippeee lets get pregnant today.....well i dont know maybe some do....but thinking the majority does not, things do happen and not saying men should easily accept it or like it,totally situational of the relationship, i got pregnant b4 marriage, and my daughter is a gift from heaven, i dont see it as being rude, it was an error in judegemnt on both of our parts, like i say things happen, and both of us were not happy about it initially but things do happen and i am happy this one did...cuz marriage or not, i have the best gift god could every give me....heart wings
Every woman has the right to close their legs?
ok, mike remember that last bullet i was talking about....boxing
Angelinbali, the what you call wierd blogs are because they relate 100% to this site. They wierd but relate with a lot of us if not everyone in here. Smitten, thanx a lot! Your experience is acceptable. In my culture the first time is acceptable. I had actually meant women not young ladys. Women that are in here, I hope none will give this men any pregnancy b.s! Mike, thanx a lot ;)
I know it's complicated. But I think the blogger is right and I think young girls need to be taught, don't open those legs unless your certain the man moving between them is deserving of it.


Or buy a rubber.
I'd marry a pregnant woman whose child being carried wasn't mine, IF I loved her and I felt it was right. Plus, I would not have to worry about the child being deformed and insane like me.
Mike!!!!!!!!!!!

Quit putting bad ideas in women's heads pleaseeeeeeeeeeee ....


Cause u have had enough, doesn't mean we all didddd ...


Fellow guys ... lets beat him to death!!!!


Rgs ...
I know smittens. Sometimes I need to be serious. You 100% right.


And babiessmitten Melt a man's heart like woman.
And the blogger is having fun! 10k0, great sense of humour you have! And Mike, why then single parents if babies melts men's hearts?
Suga, @ this day and age could you realy have mentioned that it takes 2... When we all know most men to never be there for their children? What you said doesn't make sense. Women should know better!
just gonna throw a curve in here...dunno but i also know of alot of awesome single dads caring for their babes and the women arent there...cheers
*taught .........................
10k has your answer blogger.

And smittens, you are right, good men and bad men. Good woman and bad woman. I know that is over simplifying it.

To add to 10k, if I may, as to why some men don't take care of their babies,,,simple question, complicated answer, but to sum it up some, selfishness, ignorance, fear, lack of integrity, lack of compassion.

Then the next question is why are some people "that" way and others the "other" way. That answer is very long and with some unknowns.

Just my thoughts.
sometimes mikey i do like you hug
I am also sitting here thinking, I love to think "why" but the more important thought, is to learn to recognise the "good" and the "bad" and to understand you must look much deeper then the surface to see the truth.
awwwwww...mikey, i am really started to like you...hug
...and that can be very hard to do considering we are visual creatures, and some smart creatures knowing the fact that we are visual creatures, deceive us with their knowledge of our chemistry, for their own personal gain.

this applies to both men and woman.

Life is like a chess game. If you want to win(what you desire, regardless of 'good' or 'bad'), you must try to think what your opponent is thinking.
I've called it weird because you're judging your sisters on here. The only "bloody rude" I feel is you. JMPF
Don't get all mushy on me now smittens. Don't forget my dark sidedevil
I know Shelly. My sister is a good woman and is raising a child alone. It is a very complex situation. No two situation exactly alike. Best thing to do is try to teach our loved children best things we learn.
Angelin, it is still rude, and you being rude and defencive awakens my wondering mind. Sorry that you got upset, never my intentions. If a woman got pregnant years ago in that situation I just am not expecting them to still be doing it today! Thats my opinion, period or rather fullstop
Hello Intellow,

I don't agree with this statement you've made "It's bloody rude that women get pregnant and expect men to "just" accept it quietly." If a man doesn't want a woman to become pregnant he can take steps to prevent it. If a woman doesn't want to become pregnant she too can take steps to prevent it. The woman shouldn't have to accept the blame. It takes two to Tango.
Phenomenalwoman, well said tx! Alekk you all keep saying that a woman won't get pregnant if she doesn't want to. So why is a woman wanting or knowing she will get pregnant not discussing the possibilities with he man? Men are easy, if they want a baby they won't just create 1, but will tell a woman. Its not chicken eggs men shoot in us!
should have used the pill dear.


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