Please advise your ideas on this case, thanks...
Dear CS members and friends,
This morning I heard from one of my friend on CS saying that his girlfriend (also member of CS) and he, in relationship, but in secret because they are afraid that there are some jealous people trying to say some bad things to separate them, saying that the girl is actually a whore at her location, for example!
I told him that, it’s OK if they don’t want to public their relationship but don’t worry too much about the bad things that people may says, as long as they know each other, their friends know them, their family know them, those are enough.
But honestly to say that, I can’t stop thinking about this case… its very terrible if you are in relationship with someone and people around saying that you are a whore!!
Imagine that you are facing this problem,
What will you do if you are a man and what will you do if you are a girl?
Your sharing ideas would be high appreciated.
Thank you all,
Comments (32)
If a friend tells you something on private mail,which means he trusts you-why do you have to bring that out on the blogs where millions of people could read that.
You seem a very good friend to keep secrets,you disappointed me-Mimi
Its look cute. Thanks.
The man told me that he is currently meeting the girl at her location and so far as I know they love each other very much. I never talk with the girl, actually. But I talk with the man sometimes as friends. I don’t know if they are reading this blog. if yes, I hope could help them with some value advices.
Becks,
Thanks for your comment Becks, thank you very much!
BUT…
Do you know whom I’m talking about??
Is there any name mentioned on my blog??
I even don’t mention about location.
I don’t know how you read and understand the message! Really. And I don’t think if there is anybody reading my message and knows whom I’m talking about! Anyway, in case there is anyone knows, then definitely also their friends, then, I don’t understand what is more important for them?? Value advises to go further with their relationship OR have to keep secret and worry all the time??
She mentioned only the situation, and not the persons.
This fact assures privacy.
It also helps this "couple" to read comments from others, and so, get some help (second opinion).
We agree to disagree
Have you read my mind ??
I know. It should be this way..
Thanks for understanding...
caught me red handed!!
I'm afraid i agree with my mate Becks on this and so I'll have to be very careful from now on not to become your friend in the near future , BUT and I repeat BUT
we can become very easily LOVERS so when you find out how to work out this matter we can love each other at length ....what ab this my dear Mimi ?
Moon & 10k,
Welcome to my blog.
You are encouraged to talk whatever you want! :-)
Mick,
Thanks for posting bro. You are also my bro from now on!
at least I risk my life with a purpose
I forgot to mention that they met each other on CS but they are also met in real already. And they are also no more on CS, OR, maybe still on CS but just for fun and friends.
My sis and bro are all well selecting!
You are my younger bro.!
17:15pm, 05/09/10 (CET)
Sis Jed dear,
I’m deeply sorry that you feel this blog is something private. I would have a lesson from here from now onwards, anyway.
Thanks for your advices, sis. Actually, my purpose was just want to help collecting some advices, and actually, as I said, I also would like to know people ideas on this issue, because I will feel very terrible if one day this case happens to me. I hope to receive you sympathy and please understand for me. Thanks sis.
Thank you.
Actually, this blog is not with the purpose elucidate my curiosity.
First, I just hope the “couple” can collect some value advices for them easier go further with relationship.
Second, I would like to know how people think and deal with this kind of issue.
Some posts are real value, I think.
Anyway, thanks for your ideas too!
Attention is something you earn,but you can't seek it
Anyway, since you say that, I would like to let you know I have more than enough attention from this site, Becks! No need to waste time with this blog to seek for attention! And yes, I grew up enough to know what is good and what is bad for my friends, and what to do to know who is really my friends and who deserve to be my friends! Thanks for speak out your comments, Becks.
And thanks for your ideas posted.