Men, With So Many Women on a Single Site-

Does it make you think There is Someone Better on the Next Page? And even when you meet someone nice, do you keep on hunting?
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ya i think most of them foolishly think they can play forever online meeting multiple women..eventually it will catch up with them and they will grow old alone..
Thank you SWissblueeyes!
I don't really have that problem, last count there were less
than 10 in my city moping Probably lots more men. doh
You divide your contacts into three categories; the one your interested in, those who wish to be pen pals, and those who disappear after one or two contacts. Too many women are eliminated for one of several reasons. Then YOU have to be patient till new arrivals show up for your scrutiny.
Hankharlow, you are very sensible! I just listen to my instincts which tend to be right on.
Wendeebee...I am more interested in men in the UK but I am open to others. I started this blog because I am learning first hand about those who write to you but keep on a looking. Asa if I weren't woman enough for one man! lol. (Little do they know! hee hee)
If am just looking for friends/hangout then numbers doesn't matter..grin
viva007, I am sure you will make alot of friends!wave
The same thing goes for women, of course. The availability of so many sites and so many single men permit the perpetual "desperado" search for Perfect instead of Right. Perfect doesn't exist, and Right is simply someone you can get along with and build a future with, and with whom you actually have a few things in common. Perfect is a fairy-tale dream, but Right is available and extremely common. Both genders are guilty of being too picky.

The key is discovering for ourselves what is "good enough" in a partner and knowing for certain what we do and do not want while still keeping all those things realistic. It's a tricky balance we're all trying to get right, otherwise we'd all no longer be single. Both partners must be emotionally mature and looking for the same kind of relationship. Realistic expectations, open and honest communication about even the smallest problems as they present themelves instead of bundled up in a complaint package or a reason to end things, and dedication to make things work out with someone who is "close" even if doing so requires discussing and re-thinking some of our previous strongly-held opinions, when combined, are a recipe for a lasting relationship.

Of course, this is just my view of things. Feel free to take from it whatever you see fit, and best of luck to you in your search.
THelastgoodman0-thank you , this is probably true, how many of us are guilty of looking for "perfection" in an human that cannot be perfect? We are certainly not perfect! I know my faults like the back of my hand! I am sure we all know them. Whether we admit to them or hide them...is an individual thing!
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