Time to give, time to receive

Embedded image from another site

It is important to know when we can give attention and when we need attention.

Often we are inclined to give, give, give without every asking anything in return.
We may think this is a sign of generosity or even heroism.

But it might be little else than a proud attitude that says:
“I don’t need help from others. I only want to give.”

When we keep giving without receiving we burn out quickly…there is a time to give and a time to receive.

We need equal time for both if we want to live healthy lives.

Henri Nouwen in Bread for the Journey.wave
Post Comment

Comments (14)

we are born to give , so how can we burn out ?

banana
@virgosingle
you are right…but giving without receiving doesn’t exist.Maybe you are giving as habit,but don’t deny that you received a lot back.Even just a simple smile…JMO
handshake
Kamrani,

This is true life and love require a fine balancing act in order to stay healthy and in allowing others to give to us we can then in turn help them better. I need to remind myself of this.professor
Dear WINHA,
Thank u for your nice commentbouquet

AND SO SORRY I'VE DELETED BY MISTAKE.blushing handshake
Dear Lana,

Yes you are right, It s all about the right balance.
Thanks for your comments. bouquet
Dear parti,

All the things in this world are created in balance… some believe when we give more, then we will receive more..but it’s in GOD’s way..

So, I prefer not to treat the word “receive” as our intended action. The word “receive” should be replaced by “given”… by GOD,
in the unexpected way..perhaps u believe in this way cheers
"All the things in this world are created in balance… some believe when we give more, then we will receive more..but it’s in GOD’s way.."

Kamrani,

thumbs up I fully agree with your statement above....thumbs up
@Kamrani

"When we keep giving without receiving we burn out quickly…there is a time to give and a time to receive"

true and wise words
but ,the receiver gets settled and used to receive your help and generosity and when its time for him/her to become a giver ,he/she shy`s away ...
@baban,

Thank you for your very helpful opinion.. handshake
I like this blog,Kamrani.

the more we give, the more blessed we are going to be and that is exactly what's happening in the life we live.

Thanks God ,that I Follow this in my life,to be blessed.
@Zahra,

Very Beautiful Write, and So Truethumbs up
God Bless you more and more dear Friend ...angel2
I believe in what you say, but without the need to bring a god into it. If we give or recieve too much the imbalance will inialate. Nature no matter what seems to level all, given time.
I beleive life is but one big pot, we take out and put in wich benifits all and none.
@woopee_jonny,

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cool

Thanks for your sweet humor .handshake
@Redex,

Very good point..Thanksrose
Post Comment - Let others know what you think about this Blog.