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Confusing men!!!

So ok,,, I have met some great frineds on this site -- both men and women... the women are fine... but the men!!! Oh my...I have been talking to a great guy -- but he is unwilling to go further because of where I live... I live in an isolated community, and for my son,,, I plan to stay here for another 3 years... he does not like that. This other guy I just met lives far away from me. He wants to move here. After a few hopeful emails he sends me one saying "oops, we are getting too close too fast and I need space"! Hello!!! I said from the very beginning That I didn't want contact because of the distance... but noooooo... it was not an issue with him... I mean... why can't a man know what he wants.... commitment takes time/trust/give and take.... If you are not ready for this then please say so at the beginning- it could save a lot of heartache. I am honest and straight forward from the very beginning... if you don't like it then DON'T RESPOND... It hurts when the hope dies-- ya know...

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virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Jun 17, 2011●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

there's idiots everywhere , I put ," only from my country " on my profile and they think I would want someone from poland or canada , silly women ...

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Jun 17, 2011●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

its a waste of time givings one's heart away to someone you will never see

titsy●Medan, North Sumatra Indonesia

Jun 17, 2011●71 Blogs●1,604 Comments

It would be really nice too to have a man come point blank and say to the woman, "I'm sorry but I don't want to make a commitment" - Why lead on a lady? And Virgo is very true...ladies, 'no point in giving away your hearts' - I think it is going to be difficult to find someone to commit to on a cyber world like this - the distance and the absence of the person play a big role in it....

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Jun 17, 2011●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

one day , maybe next year when I have finished building my yacht , I might sail around to your side of the earth on my way to Ibzza and beyond

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Jun 17, 2011●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

them that gave you life make you feel what you are, a daughter.. dont know stilllooking if your a mother but if you are? then them you gave life to makes you feel your a mother.. them that you share friendship with makes you are a friend.. daughter mother or friend its all good but as good as it is it dont make us feel like a woman,but to be and feel desired by a man does' reasons why i think we need them.

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Jun 17, 2011●360 Comments

Hey stilllooking I hear you! Men it seems just don't know what they want which is why they play those little games in the first place! What I've learned-Don't take whatever they say too seriously!

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Jun 17, 2011●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

ahh thanks would love to join ya music but i better get on up to bed have a little too many on me as it is (hic-up)plus iv a early start in the morning so nite nite one and all

stilllooking66OP●Grandfalls, nl, Newfoundland Canada

Jun 17, 2011●8 Blogs●59 Comments

you are so right belle........ yep... I've done one tooo many... wish we were all together having a night of it.....

I need friends .... who drink... the end... lololol

luv you guys....

lana1234567●Nowheresville, Michigan USA

Jun 17, 2011●77 Blogs●663 Comments

still,
I have discovered that men for the most part are very rational, practical and logical when it comes to their job and professional life. They plan things out and know exactly what their short term and long term goals are BUT when it comes to their personal lives, they do not have a clue and are all over the map.....

One moment they will say one thing and the next ....its anybody's guess.

So don't feel that you are alone in this. Lets just not take anything seriously anymore and have ourselves a good laugh because I'm afraid that if we try to figure it out or take it too seriously we may end up going mad

maryrachelle●Bathurst, New Brunswick Canada

Jun 17, 2011●2 Blogs●507 Comments

Do yourself a big favor and only date men who live in your area.

aj1543●Orange County, California USA

Jun 17, 2011●6 Comments

I can understand your frustration. You are very clear about what you want. Unfortunately, many people aren't and you are running into them. All I can say is be firm about your commitment to not having contact w/ someone that is far away even if they seem ok w/ it. If you stick to your guns, then there will be no chance for them to change their mind later. Obviously, these men were not "the one" so hopefully that can give you a little piece of mind. Good luck.

arshids123●Dubai, United Arab Emirates

Jun 18, 2011●47 Blogs●128 Comments

may these guys looking some thing else from you not pure love and affection........better be careful in selecting one from online

Nikogas●Metro, Oregon USA

Jun 19, 2011●16 Comments

I went all the way...I flew here and there. talk about air miles..I got married..changed my whole life to get through the visa immigration and at the last moment, year later she bailed. Now..she wont even acknowledge me or send the Divorce papers that I even allowed her lawyer to sign my name on. Commitment?? I have always went the distance. It works both ways. for you, you have a criteria..for me..today...I have mine too...I got tired of flaky people,,just for the record. I have met a few that ended up being friends, but that is not what we are talking about here. It hurts like hell!! good luck to you though,

Navymuffin●Montrose, Colorado USA

Jun 20, 2011●1 Blogs●19 Comments

I'm in the same exact boat as you dearie. Only this guy dun goofed he was in a relationship and didn't bother telling me.

I know how the distance and all that is.I'm here for you.

Aidao●Mpumalanga, South Africa

Jun 21, 2011●2 Blogs●7 Comments

Who let U Down?

A man can ride a big horse but he can't control his own tongue.
I am sure he didn't do it intentionally. he may come back to you somehow.

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