The long awaited meeting

Why would my ex boyfriend ask to meet up after 5 month apart?he says he wants us to remain friends but we can do that by email...he was the one who took a step back last Nov.do you think I should meet and see what he has to say....or ...tell him he can email me if he wants to keep in touch.I am going to find it very difficult to see him and then to walk away....if...there is no mention of us rekindling or relationship...but I feel if I dont meet up I will always wonder........help
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Well, just don't hiden from your feelings. Even if just friends are okay...cheers
I would be careful if I were you; it sounds like you still have some unresolved feelings about him, and seeing him might be difficult if it doesn't go the way you want it to. Maybe send him a text or email asking him why he wants to meet in person?
Go with your head - if you don't you might always be wondering!

If you want a relationship with him - tell him straight! if he doesn't, walk away - if that's what you want confused You must still have feelings for him - I suspect smitten
hi blanad wave
he stepped back because he thought???
and hes thinking again, reasons why he wants to meet you, does he know his first though was wrong, but perhaps im wrong and who knows and what does it matter if i am or not dunno but YOU need to know for yourself because sometimes living with wonder can sometimes be as hard as living with regret .. good luck with what ever you decide teddybear
Hi Blanad,
I think that your ex made a very big mistake in ending it with you,as if hes asking if ye can be friends he know's he has made a very big mistake in losing you 5 months ago and it's probably killed him not having u around to cuddle up to and kiss every morning,afternoon,evening and night if ye were living together?i think just meet him and see what he has to say,and if he want's to try again with ye're relationship which i hope he does i think ye need to agree on taking one step at a time,if u don't u're always going to be wondering and in the long run that is going to kill u,so i'd say give him a chance to talk and then ye can take it from there,Hopefully if he has any sence he'll want to spend the rest of his life with u,Then again all this is coming from a male.Take care of u'reself and good luck.

Karl
Hi Blanad! wave

I can't give any comment here since the information is not adequate for me to give comment such as what caused both of you break up or something. If he was the one who hurted you then I guess what he wants this time from meeting you? The next question is if you are the one who break the relationship, I'm sure he still feel curious with someone who break up with him and want to try go back. Ask yourself..what position are you now? If you can't meet and it hard but you have willing to remind friends, I guess by email first is a good step for the approach to be friends.

I just hope you are okay. True to your heart. We in here just can support you {smile}

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