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just had the long awaited meeting with my ex.......6 months actually since we have met for coffee,it was difficult for me as I still have feelings for him,we talked but did not discuss anything about the break up.we spent 2 hours together and gave him a peck on the cheek which I thought was fine ....and then ..to my surprise he pulled me closer ...what did that mean....even more confused now?????
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You never had closure as to why the relationship ended, and you also don't know why he restarted it again. For some reason I get the sense you are afraid to ask and find out.
Finding the truth will never hurt us unless you allow it to hurt us but if we allow ourselves to be in uncertainty and doubt that can destroy a person. Sometimes we tell ourselves that "not knowing" will help us recover, but "not knowing" is the reason why we don't recover.
You may have your own doubts about yourself but you can overcome those doubts by focusing on the fact that not all relationships work because not every personality is suited to the other. So take the courage to ask him and if he isn't the right person for you, then take the courage to step away from him. Good Luck Blanad!