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ever hear the song blanad YOUR MY FAVOURITE WASTE OF TIME???
if you find enjoyment in time then why see it as wasted??? but that been said, im going with the inkling hes looking for something abit more then friendship??? if he still has feelings for you maybe i'd risk it but if you think he has not then dont let him take advantage of you
Specifically he may have moved on as he has told you about other friends,and you say he also wants you and he to be friends. You are on here so that raises another question?
I'm wondering if he is still, or was, in grieving for the Mother of his children and possibly moved on too soon to make a heart-felt commitment to you, or, in fact to anyone.
Rather than second guessing all this I can't help feeling that to be fair to both of you and particularly yourself, you might be the one to start this much needed overdue discussion.. We all know that communication is just SO important along with trust and integrity.
You say in your profile you seek someone who is an open communicator! take the initiative yourself and broach the subject and sort it once and for all.Better than trying to move on but always wondering.
You have your own life to get on with and it is not desireable to be "stuck".
I would prefer this to come across as reflections rather than "advice" and as you say you still love him.
Can I suggest using your feminine intuition not just your heart in whatever ensues. Best wishes and good luck.