What make us change ?

Some of us learn from experiance and change to make our lives better, and then again some of us never change for the better

nobody changes for someone else,if they do they are mistaken and will regret it.change comes from looking at yourself,becoming conscious of something that you do not like,deciding what you want to do about it and working on it.we can only control ourselves not others so work on yourself and hopefully your significant other will notice and appreciate.

Normally people change for better , but not me
All my changes are to be better just to one , ME

Selfish much

Mysst , one wise man said : want to be good for others , first be good to your self , dont know to raise and teach a child - leave him to others , someone said you are stupid - agree .
I believe in it

hardship was what made me embark on me current route... it was a major turning pt in me miserable life...

I think we all change with life and experiences but one should never change soley for the sake of another person. If you can't accept the person for the way they are; then you shouldn't be with them. No one has a right to change you. JMO

This is a tricky one.. If one is in a loving relationship and wants to stay in that relationship, then I believe they will do as much as they can to make things better for both parties..

The tricky part is if one feels that their partner is part of the problem in not being able to change themselves, such as being reminded of their issue every day by them, then maybe one starts to reflect on where they are in life, where they want to go and if they want to stay with that person..

These are questions we can only answer ourselves, we can only hope that the path we choose is the best for us, (though in some cases, partners will also do whats best for their partner, even if it means leaving them)..

Though I forgot, we can always ask Bowie..