What to do?

Few years ago I had an acquaintance who created many problems and troubles to me. It was very difficult to fight with him.
Now this person have a huge troubles and if I want I can help him. But I`m not sure must I help him or not?!dunno
Maybe this man deserve his destiny?!confused
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Very difficult Spd, as common sense says to stay well clear, yet compassion says to help.. confused I'd see there being three choices:

1. Leave well alone..
2. Make sure any family know his predicament.
3. If you wish to help, see if it can be done through a third part so that he knows it does not come from you directly.

Hope this helps a little wink cool
Thanks Yash!
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I need some time to consider what to do in this situation.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Great idea!thumbs up
give him one way bus ticket to bansko in the hope he will clime a mountain and get lost there rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
@Scotch, I lost enough big sum for him and now I have to pay his ticket?wow NEVER! laugh
Anyway he will reach the bottom if I don`t help him!
hi spd wave
must you help him??? no i dont think you do but the choice to help him or not, MUST be decided by only you..
you have the ability to help the man..
you know how he seeks your help, we dont...
you know the consiquencies if you dont and only you know the risks your taking should you help him.

whatever about if this man deserves his destiny or not dunno
does he deserve your helping hand??? maybe that might help you decide, is he worth it or not sigh

good luck with your choice, hope you make the right onehandshake sad flower
Spd wave

Only you can answer this - go with your heart and your brain provided it doesn't hurt you financially or in any other way professor

Take Care
Obviously, you must want to help him,
otherwise you wouldn't be thinking about doing so.
I'm not sure what type of help he needs,
but I agree with Yash, make sure his family
is aware and given the opportunity to help first. peace
yes but like everything in live there is a time to help, but there is a saying you know,,,drugs , alcohol, dept , mental illness , and many other things ,you have to hit the bottom before you start to recover from this and there is nobody but yourself and determination that gets you out of this ,,,so see if he as it in him first before you help or he might do what he as already done to you again professor ok
I would stay away of it. Unless it's a question of death or life and it's only me who can help.
@itchy, @felix, @Jim thank you folks!hug
The only thing I fear is that this person will not learn his lesson if I gonna help him!
Who knows!dunno
Hi Jana!wave
These are the words of Peter Dunov, yes?
Spd - if your not sure go with your brain - so maybe it's best to stay away dunno
Yes @felix! I think this is the best solution in this moment!
Hi Spd! I respect and like Dunov very much but can't remember which of his words you associate with my comment. I'm flattered anyway! wave
Spd wave

Maquiavelo or Confucio?

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Confucio!
Hi Alonerdo!wave
Maybe a bit of both!
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