what does it take to be a successful leader?

They say how can one be a good leader when the person can't lead his or her own family.

What does it take for one to become a good leader both at work and in romance?

I'm a Manager of 5 staffs: 2 gay assistants, 1 gay graphic designer, 1 gal graphic designer and 1 admin gal.
Would love the chance to become closer to them, the thing is am a very independent person and often consumed with my works meanwhile it's come to my concern that I need to know my staffs better to motivate them.

In terms of romance I suppose I need to be less vocal and controling and let the man to be the man he needs to be.

Inputs please teddybear
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indeed ... no man will take a woman's yelling without a 'budge' unless he's a total abject!

uh oh
yes dear... yes dear... mmm-hmmm, whatever you say dear.. sure.. oh yeah, you're right.. you're always right dear. yes dear. sure.. yesss .yawn blues help lolgrin
@10k i know, sometimes the ladies get too independent and forget to go easy and let the guys take the lead grin

@lachi why thank you, it's a bitter sweet blessing, and sometimes not as fun as it seems
yeah, taking notes of your suggestions and coming out of my shell

hope the both of yous are having a great day cheers
Marshmallowgirl, Im just kidding.. if you're successful.. keep on doing whatever makes you happy... or change a little if it doesnt make you happy. You're intelligent, you know whats best for you.. and youre happiness. I wish you success and happiness.. always. grin
devil Treat them mean it keep them in ordermumbling Your top dog nowyay STEAL any any good ideas they have for de company and use them as your ownangel and in no time a tall u be runing the companywriting wine CRACK THE WHIP TATS WHAT I SAYmumbling drinking
:) be good leader just for professional in work not in privacy their life. Be good leader is not easy but just do as far as you can with the rule and the patient
hi citra!
aha, be more patient, noted dancing

kok belum tidur? have a good night
cool i will of course honey
MMG...Just dont Forget that Friday is Payday !!!
And they will ALL LEEEEEERVE You !!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
bouquet
@murt yay dancing

@parti banana oh yeah payday payday hahahahaha
Firstly as leader you should give respect to your staff so that they will give to you because when you are given a respect you are taken a respect. Secondly as a leader you should motivate your staff to do their best. One thing always remember the staff is always inspired from their leader so make yourself so good that will inspire from you. Also maintain a good relationship with staff but do not attach personally so much. Plz as a leader do not attach personally so much personally with your staff otherwise your business will effected. I mean do not mix your professional life and personal life. In romance there is no leader because in love win and lose do not matter the matter of thing is love. Also i say business means deals but love means sacrifies. For more you may also contact me. Best of luck for your future .
charisma. adolf, for instance, had plenty of that.
@karan
I just learned today that there's a different between being a manager and a leader.
Apparently this coild be a good opportunity for me to step up a notch a move from a manager to a leader.
Indeed, how to inspire other people I suppose will take someone quite charismatic to do so.

Thanks for the tips!

@10k I shall wear a mustache to work on Monday peace
actually ... that ain't what I intended :/
@10k oh.... doh silly me, would you please let me know what you intended before
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All I wanted is someone to come home to after a busy day at work. A man that I can trust. Well, yeah, we all know, easier said than done, eh ;)

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