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Marshmallowgirl
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All I wanted is someone to come home to after a busy day at work. A man that I can trust. Well, yeah, we all know, easier said than done, eh ;)
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How would you feel if you were her?
Nothing is to be said that process will be completed
Are there children involed
there are lots of questions.......my answer to your question would be..........
at arms lenght.
he's been out the house since more than a month and yes, the only thing keeps him so far is the thought of his 3 yo son.
arms length, noted, captain
But I was quite happy to introduce ex to anyone that I was close with - even stranger?
If he has only left a month don't rush things - Folk have a habit of trying to work things out and getting back together. I was six months separated before I joined the dating scene and we had talked long and hard to see if we could work things out.
In the end we "separated" or at least stayed separately in different parts off the house and had our own lives.
My current partner has met my ex several times and they get on well together.
After 1 Month - don't rush in.
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I wish you happiness
Glad that everything works well with you
They say there will come rainbow after the rain!
I got a little emotional today and asked perhaps would be better if we took some time away and stop communicating for awhile hehehe
wishing you well too!
Noted
He needs to resolve things first.
I was getting too close as he is very open and always updated me with every details, sometimes things i feel i don't need to know. I respect his openess but i also feel i need to protect me-self before tis gone too far.
Go for it if that's the case.
I shall proceed with caution, wish me luck
The only thing i can advise to you is to listen to what your heart is saying..If you feel that he was a man worth keeping and you want to be with for the rest of your life then you have to hold on him, however you also have to be assured if he really is in the process of separation..
I'd like to know: have you thought about what it is that you have that is better than the other woman?
U dont have to tell us what it is that is better in you (for him) but i only want to advice you to think through that.
Have you adviced him on how to deal with his relationship yet?
Been his advicer?
As I am very vulnerable about being the only one, I prefer a man who has totally overcome his previous relationship(s). I give ALL my love and attention and expect the same.
Since i miss 10k i throw in this one:
I miss 10k too!!
Thanks for the advise.
Sometimes the heart isn't as smart as the mind hehehe always trying my best to keep them balance. I know, easier said than done indeed
He's a keeper, that's why I'm keeping in mind the best way to proceed both for his and my own good.
I believe what he needs right now is a good friend who can listen which I've been trying too, however, both he and I know that I may not be the best choice right now as I do have feelings for him
Best I can do is to start keeping my distant and give him more space to resolve his issues :)
Hope you're having a great day out there
I genuinely believe what he needs right now is a good friend to just listen to him.
He's been very open even with details that I feel I don't need to know
I've tried to be a good listener, however, as today he's having another drama episode which the lady lied to him, yet again, guess I just feel I had enough and they really need to just resolve their own drama
LOL on the note about 10k!
He's prolly on one of his funky adventures, hope he'd be back soon...
Last time we message was when his blog about bobbies got deleted by the mods
Missed his wonderfully unique ways of thinking hahahaha
Sometimes I wonder myself where did my conscience go
Agreed, lots of fish in the sea, away swimming we go
I would say prepare yourself for the worst scenario and if its the opposite then you will be twice as happy. Take care..
I could be swimming in a small pond for such a big fish like me
Always keep an open option to other sweet single guys out there, oh where art tho Romeo
As a pessimist I try my best not to really focusing preparing for the worst
Wonder if you would also find this video interesting -pardon the geeky me-
Tali Sharot: The optimism bias
Told him that he needs to resolve their drama on their own; that we need some time away and avoid communicating for awhile, hope am not being harsh....
We need guys to make ourlives more simple
thank you!
off to bed now everybody, be back soon
Good luck with which ever way you decide to go...