Funny People
Well, apparently I just met one of the odds happens on this site.No pun intended as I only wanted to share if anyone here has had the same funny experience and how did you guys deal with the situation.
Long story short I met this guy online, chatted for a month while I kept trying to ask when will be the right time for us to meet as he's also in Jakarta. From all his chats he seemed sincere just several things didn't seem right, like he didn't really tell me where he works or try to call me or could give his recent photos.
Scammer alerts, I know!
Just today he admitted that he was just experimenting and had a bad break up in which his ex left him for another guy she met online. He was trying to have a feel on what actually made the ladies could fall for guys online. Along the way he feels that I've been so sincere that it's time for him to -finally- reveal his true identity and he did send me immediately his current picture.
Now, is this a friend to keep or kick him out?
In all fairness, he did eventually got the guts to tell the truth and we could always reset and start from 0. We always have pleasant conversation too on another note.
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I guess some of the guys on their 30s are still having such curiosity
To follow my foolish heart is to continue the friendship, yet part of my brain and even he himself said that with his current background of having his sneaky thoughts might not be a good start at all. Wonder if tis' me or him being complicated
I'd love for us to have the chance to meet in person as I said on my other blog post that I truly crave for someone to share a good conversation with. And with him, regardless of his silly experiment, we did share some common grounds when talk about things.
Now the questions are, what about trust as one of the foundations of a good relationship, all the while he initially was just fooling around with me. And am I that desperate to having a good friend?
Well said and you're so right!
I suppose I somehow have grown a found of his persona, wish that it could go away soon
Thank you for the insights, I could feel we've somewhat the same free souls, totally understand what you mean.
Walk on warm sands
point well taken, we indeed start from 0 and been good friends since