tis all bout the money
Ladies and gentlemen, although there are a lot of factors for us to consider someone as a potential partner, was just wondering your opinion on the importance of having your future partner to be financially secured.The reason why I'm posting this is because am currently close with a really nice, sophisticated, smart, down to earth guy and am just a little worried our different lifestyles may one day affect the relationship.
I've learned from past experience that a good guy is hard to come by, but apparently I also enjoy the convenient of my current lifestyle which just a little above average.
oh what to do... what to do....
ps. we met here but his profile has been inactive ever since we started getting closer - just in case you guys are wondering
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IF YOU REALLY LIKE HIM THEN YOU'LL BE READY TO ACCEPT EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM....
Why would it matter if he doesn't have a lot of money? Do you want him to buy you things? Or are you worried you might have to pay for the movies or dinner?
not as easy in real though and seems that we just have to grow together in love.
@still I feel that I don't have the right to do so......
Quote: "I've learned from past experience that a good guy is hard to come by,..."
I guess the whole money thing irks me generally, and when I see people making decisions about relationships, love and affairs of the heart because of it, it seems to devalue those important things in the process.
GET RICH OR DIE TRYIN!
oh i really dig this guys
well, quite bitter isn't it?
there should still be some places in Indonesia where it is matrimonial, the woman inherits and is head of the family.
in western world of course this wasn't the case for centuries and the changes of nowadays are still not really accepted. men doing household, childcare, not earning the money. but women have always been valued rather high in german history, no such stories as in India e.g. about burnt women.
but coming back to myself lifestyle could be an obstacle. I would not like to be paid a holiday on a cruise ship and could not afford it myself, but get seasick anyway!
in a foreign country u have to live on something if it is more than a holiday.