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54 years old (in 1 hour) and am experiencing the emptiness of being alone and the fact that I don't have much time left. Empathy is a prerequisite for a fundamental understanding of this blog. This is my first ever blog, let's c where it goes.
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Welcome yuscheering Hope you enjoy your stay herehandshake
Hello yusfull,

Why do you say you do not have much time left, are you terminally ill? Many people do feel as you do. Breaks my heart when I see someone who is in pain. Do you have family near you?

Not everyone is here out of lonliness. I'm not at all lonely. The blogs are entertainment and its a social network.

I've got a very wonderful and loving son so I'm never alone.

Would be nice to meet a good man to spend the rest of my life with but if it doesn't happen I'm okay with that too.



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Well Yusfull, I hope some of that emptiness gets filled here.
It is a bit crazy, but there are big hearts here, and a new face is always welcome. So pull up a chair, have a coffee sit back and relaxcswelcome party dance
Yusfull wave

“Self-absorption in all its forms kills empathy, let alone compassion. When we focus on ourselves, our world contracts as our problems and preoccupations loom large. But when we focus on others, our world expands. Our own problems drift to the periphery of the mind and so seem smaller, and we increase our capacity for connection - or compassionate action.” - Daniel Goleman

In the end, you're the only one who can fill this emptiness by embracing it and letting go.

Welcome to the blogs wine
Hello yusfull

you sound very sad, what can we do here to make you feel better?cheering cheering cheering Dont be sad...crying crying crying
Yeah, Silver . . . part of the furniturerolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Im 41, and i have more than one good eye for a few ones in their mid 50's (women that is.lol) Meaning, unless u suffer something physical i hope you can change the attitude.
I'm reading Churchill now, he was it the hight of his career when he was not excactly young anymore. Talk about lively vibrant bloke.
My papa is soon 77, he thinks he is 24 (acts like 16).

Happy birthday Yusfull and welcome onbored!

cheers
Cofy, what a cutie your grandson, God bless him heart wings


Maybe its a sign I want a second child moping
You got it Cofy!!! peace
Hey their is the guy with the pink pregnant shirt nice to see youbanana banana
Thanks Lilly, he gives us a reason to smile everydaylaugh

If your heart is speaking to you, and yours seems pretty big, then don't let anything stop youhug
Thanks Lilly, he gives us a reason to smile everydaylaugh

If your heart is speaking to you, and yours seems pretty big, then don't let anything stop youhug
Silver, if you come in here looking for attention, you are sure to find it . . . you have made your mark, as the pregnant pink Trolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
happy birthday party balloons dance danceline

HAPPY BIRTHDAY YUSFULL

happy birthday party balloons dance danceline
Hi Yusfull and welcome here! I am turning 44 in 1 day so I get you very well!

Happy Birthday! teddybear
I'm amazed at the thoughtful responses. 1.I'm not terminally ill(hypertophy) 2.I'm very alone 3.Though I feel young, cynicisim can take its toll. I'm highly elated by the responses and am greatful for the the comfort this brings me.
Empathy is the term I would like to hear more about, How deep can you feel about others' pain (and joy) and how do you relate to it?
Yus...The Baby is Born!!! ITS A BOY!!!yay yay yay yay yay
grin beer
Ariel....cartwheel cartwheel cartwheel cartwheel cake happy birthday They only had 21 Candles left?? Enjoy!!
teddybear bouquet hug
Birthday Boy and Inthemind...cake happy birthday A good thing never hurt anyone!!!
cheers thumbs up thumbs up
yusfull, I am 71 and i have enjoyed every minute of my life. Even during the worst of times because I got past them. I read most of the comments so I hope you are feeling better!
59, but you are gorgeous! Okay, the rest of you...........mock!!! I have a thick skin, well, nearly, from blogging here with you mouldy lot! laugh
Welcome to the jungle , bday boy head banger dancing banana applause
Thank you dear Parti! Tomorrow ;) hug kiss
Yusful, Belated Happy Birthday!party danceline buddies happy birthday and Welcome to the Blog.

Inthemind... Belated Birthday Greeting to you also. party danceline cartwheel buddies happy birthday

To Ariel, Happy, Happy Birthday!teddybear happy birthday danceline cake
@ yusfull : What do you mean by you don't have much time left?
Saskia, thanks blushing I always enjoy reading your posts too.

Am I the only one here not minding getting older? In fact my life has been getting better and better after turning 30 and I truly feel the best is yet to come.

Despite being alone, and sometimes feeling lonely, I do enjoy this phase in my life; I feel a lot calmer, wiser and am in total touch with myself... and still learning every day.

Empathy is placing yourself in someone elses shoes... all very well, but there is a thin line between encouring someone to wallow in self pity and showing compassion.
Enjoy every day as it comes, show interest in the world and people around you and try to change the things in your life you're not happy with.

Enough inspirational mumbo jumbo for one day... better get back to work laugh

wine
Thank u all for the kind words and wishes. But here for u all is something much more profound.
To be or not to be - Shakespeare
To do is to be - Plato
Do be do a do do - Frank Sinatra
DOO DOO's MY Cat!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Hey, Yusfull, you and Parti have a common languagerolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

That MUST be a good signgrin
Yusfull, It is good that you think a lot and perhaps that will be your best part....
Calliopesgirl.
I can develop and learn not 2 think so that I can have better 'parts' rolling on the floor laughing
If my heart rules my mind - as I believe it does, and I think on all that might be then pain is the side-effect that fills me till I find someone to remind me what joy may be.
Calliopesgirl
'practice Quantum Mechanics and am a great fan of Of Quantum Physics'
how do u practice Quantum Mechanics, do u mean in some spiritual form or is it a new type of martial arts?
I am enthralled by Quantum Physics and follow the discoveries made from it. We're shown that nothing is certain and that advancing research leaves no room for blind faith. We are all one, but there is nothing that is all.
Theories, yes.
This has been fun and before it gets stagnant this is the end of this blog crying, but there will be more when I can sense what is a more interactive subject.
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Iskele North Cyprus, Famagusta, Cyprus

Warm, conscientious and empathetic. Outgoing, confident and with a great sense of humour. Love to make people laugh, extremely helpful, practicle and knowledged. [read more]

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