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Privacy should be respected.
If privacy cannot be respected, the problems won't be solved by spying on each other.
The only wrong thing here would be these two different people trying to force their way of thinking on the other. If someone wants privacy then let them have it and go find someone more compatible. If someone lives their life completely open with their partner and this makes you too uncomfortable then leave them be and go find someone more in line with your way of thinking. Neither way of being is wrong,just different.
Second of all it's not about spying,it's just that neither one of us care if the other has this info. The last time I logged onto his msn was when he called me one night while on duty. His grandmother as supposed to be sending him an email about some family issue. He did not want to wait so I opened it and read it too him.
As for what friends tell me,well all I can say is that yes I do share everything with Mike. He is the most important person in the world to me and matters to me more then anyone. This man for years has spent hours in the hospital with me, been by my side for everything. Again I am not saying this type of relationship would work for everyone,but for us it's what works.
If you have somethings that you want to keep private from your partner then it means they are things that you are ashamed of or it means you are hiding your infidelities in your computer or cellphone.
I would not be asking for passwords. I would hope it would be a mute issue between us. I have nothing to hide so if he did ask it would prove to me he didn't trust me, now creating a problem in the relationship. Is it really worth it to satisfy your own insecurity? NO.
I think its a matter of trust,if you are demanding this information then you have no trust for your partner.
And yess i give him my paswords juts to make him calm cos i aint got nothing to hide, is not like i can't change them after.