Nitpic...we all do!
If you're with someone & are already wanting to change them...why are you with them in the first place? Look at yourself...Would you want someone pass you by because of your flaws or imperfections?Would you want someone trying to change you? Its hard enough changing yourself....then why try to change someone else?
There are some things or ourselves we can't help especially if we're born with "it" or something happens. Yet there are certain things we could change...if we choose to do so. But change must come from within. Not when someone expects it.
If you stripped yourself to your nakedness & looked in the mirror....nitpicking everything wrong about yourself...it would be an eye opener. Why? You're looking down at yourself & focusing on what you see. Often we're our own worst critic.
How many times have we downplayed ourselves? Saying we're not "__" enough? Even sometimes wanting to be someone else? Why do this to yourself? Its not just about our physical appearance but our strengths, our other good qualities. We sometimes forget because someone keeps reminding us.
There's so more than what meets the eye. We have so much hidden potential within us that forget to notice. Why? We focus too much on the negatives. Stop it!
Do you realize that....
Someone will still love you despite your flaws & inperfections. Someone will love your inner & outer beauty. Yes someone will always find something wrong with you. Yes someone will pass you by because you're not good enough in their eyes for whatever the reason.
That's ok! So what! You're worth it!
Remember....
We are all different in our own unique & special ways. Its what seperates from the rest. Someone will always love you no matter what. When that person comes into your life you won't care how you look or want to change you in any way. They accept you? Just the way you are. As you are the only you!
Sometimes its hard when someone points out our weaknesses....but you must be comfortable in your own skin. Even if it means walking around naked...alone or with that special someone. If you can't with/by yourself...then who will?
Be yourself. Embrace all of you.
Self-confidence is your sexiest accessory.
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Let me change into something more comfortable....is that close enough?
Well how about I'll call you when that happnes & I'll keep your number on speed dial
I know such people myself. Its frustrating. No matter what you do...even if you did a good job....they will always find something wrong. It makes me wonder...when they're nitpicking so much why aren't they doing it themselves? According to them they can do it much better. Lol.