dnt knw wat to do i just fall in loved

hello bloggers im not always in this site but today i need to blow up all my hurt aches. im frm philppines i just want to share my story. im 29 yrs old turn 30 this comming jan 3..my love story start in facebook i meet my live in partner in facebook...he is 36yrs old filipino have 3kids and separeted to his wife but not legal i mean not annuld.... we lived together in one house and got pregnant now im 7 months preggy.....a lot of people told me or warnme that this guy is a lot of girls but i dnt believe them i ignored them cuz i love him...............my friends my family doesnt like him cuz of his status but cuz of my loved to him i fyt for my love and i didnt listen to the pipol around me.......
last i got a messge frm his xgilfriend saying that they still on relationship and they didnt broke up till now...and she said that this guy is not serous to me and if i dnt leave him i will regret in the end.....she said she knw better this guy than me......its so painfull i love this guy and now we are having baby soon...... how could he do this to me.... i loved him for wat he was i accepted him even he had 3kids and wife i gave him all my love....im faitful honest to him i serve him and his kids......evrything i did just bcuz i love him.........anu paba kulang?
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Turn to God and HE will give you the correct answer. But for sure you must leave this man. You must start getting your life together because you will have your child soon. I will pray for you!
thnx ed thats the hard thing leaving him i loved him that much and im 7 pregnant now.....
virgo...yes, and now you give a big tolerance now to that rotten... the same thief will make a good companionship... isnt it ??? this is the cleanest site as you said...


ladymoon : we never know what happened in the future... but i wish you will be stronger to face the world... bouquet
Love is reciprocal shared felt shown by both sides.
Ladymoon, so you are now in the Phils. The last time you were here you were still in Qatar. Anyways, hello to you there. How's life in the Phils now? Guess a lots of Christmas lights are glowing in every corner of the city esp Makati.

Anyways, back to your situation. I do not want to get you more sad and blame. You made a mistake in loving the wrong man (sorry, just my opinion). What you can do now is to be strong to face the future because you will soon have a little angel who will be needing you. Family will always be there (that's in my case), and I hope you are there for you also.

The thing is, it is you that have to decide, whatever advices some people will give, its up to you to choose.

*Mas maigi siguro kumalas ka na po sa kanya. Sa tingin ko po walang magandang madudulot siya sa buhay mo. May anak ka man sa kanya pero ipakita mo na kaya mo mabuhay ng marangal at kaya mong buhayin ang anak mo sa iyong sariling pagsisikap. *
As soon as your baby is born, believe me, you will not have time to waist of such a lost man. Until then sort yourself out, speak to as many people as possible, get yourself together, because from no one, first is the kid, not you or the father. Make sure, by low, he accepts the kid and pays for it as well. You have too much to do before giving birth, as to waist any more time, thinking of him. And perhaps it will help you, if you make contact to his "ex", wife and all the other girls he was, and still, is with. Speak to them and probably all of you together will be strong enough to help each other and get him out of your life. Take care, good luck.bouquet
Connect1954 ...advise is a sound one ...logical too...time you meet the other ladies in his life..weather you like it or not...alone you might give in to him...wit them as your allies you have a chance wit your child BUT it can Backfire too...just talk them 1st ...oh btw that xgf who says he is still wit her ...the next time tell her bluff and ask her to call you when the next time he visit her...there's real proof ...until then Dont trouble yourself... BUT remember you are NOT his wife legally and he can call you bluff
If we fall in love without being pragmatic, it's like gambling. We don't know if we're going to win or lose. We just have to be prepared for the consequences. Turn to God and to your own family for support. Sabi nga nila mahirap sa umpisa pero makakaya kung kakayanin. At sana huwag ng ulitin pa. Mag birth control unless may piece of paper na.bouquet
thnx guys for all ur comments and advice.....i prayed god that heal my heart ache help me to be strong for my baby.....my situation is so hard cuz my friends and family mad at me cuz i didnt listen to them in the begging.... so now i got no friends no family i just get my strength to god....i cant do nothing cuz im preggy god hve mercy on me......2months to go b4 i give birth wat will happen to us? after i give birth i will find job and prove to the father of my baby that we dnt need him.......... i thank god for giving me my baby michaela..........
Friends and family mad at you because you followed your love? Should you ask them who to love?
I am sure you will find new REAl friends and I hope your family will think over it again. thumbs up wave
yes ariel they are mad at me cuz i choose a wrong guy they warn me not to follow my heart but i didnt listen i still follow my heart cuz i deeply inlove with him... even though i knew that his a married man and have 3 kids........ it is a fault if u fall inloved?
Lady, objectively spoken, you didn t act wisely. But you can t stop love. Be happy with your baby and good luck! hug wave
yes areil i knw that im stupid for falling to a married man and now suffering.......yes im happy for my baby and thank god he gave me a baby girl
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