Friendzone
When a man and a woman who are closed for some times, care about each other, there's something that they have to watch out. The so-called "Friendzone". When they're entering this zone, they're most likely to repress and hold back their feelings towards each other.What makes them do that? Some say, they don't want to ruin their "friendship". They don't want to hurt somebody's feeling, which is I can say, their own feeling. They're afraid to face if the truth is not as good as their expectation. Some say, they do that because they have other "options" to be chosed later when they already sure about their feeling.
Now, being in the "friendzone" means you have to accept when that person is talking about other "friends". You have to accept the fact that they don't contact you for some times because you guys are just friends anyway. Friends don't have to report to each other every single day.
The thing is, your heart's capacity isn't that big enough to hold your feelings towards somebody. Someday, you'll have to spit out your feelings to that person you care about.
The question, are you ready to face the truth, even if the truth is not as you have expected?
cheers!
Comments (19)
If a woman says to me 'lets just be friends' I immediately start looking for a rope or tall building....
--"toothless"--
I know how you feel though.
put your high heels on and cheer up
@plainlyjune thanks! :)
@nonsmoker Lol! love that fierce cute face! :)
Sorry to hear you cried
Maybe it's time to get to know each other better even as friends. If your feelings and his feelings growing more, if I may suggest talk and discuss about it between you two. You won't know if you don't try, they said.
"The best way to predict your future is to create it."
@lachica thanks mbak.. :) i'll try to know him better.. Thanks for the video! :')
I think that when someone say that, "LET JUST BE FRIEND" is because is not sure about her/his feeling... My suggestion is make him to change is mind!!!
mbak, ada yang harus saya sampaikan berupa pesan, tapi saya terhalang pagar nih, bolehkah saya diperkenankan masuk?
terima kasih ya.
salam,
bonita
@littlebear