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When you're too in love to let someone/something go, what would you do?
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Hi Nightfury! Thanks for posting this question...I've been asking myself that these days...confused looking forward to reading interesting answers from
Others ..grin
Fruitloop yes.. I'm also waiting for the answers.. lol..
I don't let them go....grin
Unfortunately, trying to hang onto someone in those conditions can only make things worse for the other person. I know things like that hurt, but no matter what the situation is, it is a two way street and the other person has to be considered. You cannot make someone love you...it has to be something they feel from the start and it blossoms out. It hurts like hell, but letting them go is best all the way around. Someday, maybe I will tell you how I know that for sure.
Calypso good thing.. lol..

Silver ouch.. that hurts .
If you're too in love why would you want to let go?
Sol, let's say that the guy asks the girl to leave him whenever ahe gets the chance because he thinks he's not good enough for her. But the girl still loves the guy dearly. Another note, they're in a long distance relationship.
If at all possible, I would remove my emotional feelings and look at the situation from a rational viewpoint. :)
hi fury.. I am too in love someone, but he has to go for his happiness... I will let him go... for his happiness. love someone not always hv to be mine... if he could not be with me.. i will do everything for his good and his happiness... if I dont have a choice...
Johnny & smartass thanks for your answers.. maybe that should be done..handshake
Generally speaking..... When a man tells a woman he is not "good" enough for her it is usually because the guy has found love elsewhere and does not have the courage to break another love's heart by saying the relationship is over.
I went through that...it was a 4 year LDR, although we saw each other frequently...the LDR was getting to him and the fact that he couldn't find a job in Maryland...sure it broke my heart, crying, but I had to let go and wished him well. Why should one person stay miserable in a relationship? I got over it...and am very happy. applause
@ sola...I believe you...grin
Sol, fruitloop no. I'm sure this is not because of another woman. Though yes sometimes it is..

PR really? Wow.. I'm happy for you..
Relationships are like a deck of cards, In the beginning all you need is 2 hearts and possible a diamond smitten by the end, you wish you had a club and a spade, so I say fold rolling on the floor laughing
If you do not think another woman is involved then the guy feels the LDR he is in is not working or what he wants.


PR.... I dont believe you!
That's more making sense sol.
Dear,
its depends on willingness... Bcz if u like or love smone truly then there is no any boundary which stop u to get ur love.....
Solamente...no estoy mintiendo. La verdad!
Red yes.. it's supposed to be like that I guess..

Captaindude but what if you love that person deeply?
You have to ask the question weather that person feels the same way.....if the answer is no then there's your answer. I personally do not believe that you can MAKE someone love you, no matter how much you believe you love them, it has to be a mutual feeling, a chemical reaction between the two of you. I guess this also boils down to the age old notion of understanding the difference between being "in love" and loving someone.

I'm sorry for not telling you what you want to hear but time is not waiting for anyone, but please, this is just my opinions and I am in no way an expert on these matters. dunno
Taking hold of...possession...typical nonsense...let her go is not enough...I would like to help her out...some day she was so dear to me...Now I am ideally dear to her. professor This is what love is...the commoners talking and whining about is self. professor scold
Relationships are like a deck of cards, In the beginning all you need is 2 hearts and possible a diamond smitten by the end, you wish you had a club and a spade, so I say fold rolling on the floor laughing
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You have caught my imagination...how unfortunate...you are all beyond the reach.doh
Lady the only thing you can do is listen to your heart in this I agree with what several people have said on here but in the long run it is only our opinions and nothing more love is not a forced thing it can't be it hurts and feels good it makes us laugh and cry you just have to decide what type of love you have and what it is worth going through in the end
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