nightfury
nightfury
Oct 2014
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The biggest regret

Everyone has a thing that he/she regrets the most. For me, my biggest regret is that I never gave myself a chance to spend more time with my dad.

My dad passed away in 2007 due to cancer. During that time,I spent a lot of time at school with my friends because it was my first year in University. The euforia of being a freshman was very high. when I'm at home, I rarely talk about lots of things to him. All we did was just sitting on the couch watching TV. Rarely talked about his sickness or about our feelings. At that time I thought I still had a lot of time to be with him.

Now, there are times that I wish I could turn back the time to 2007 so that I could spend more time with him and tell him that I love him so very much.

Pah, you may not be here with me anymore. However, I know that you're always watching me. Just like what you once promised me. I love you and please visit me in my dream.


Love you pah.. sad flower
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Mimi1973
Mimi1973●Perak,, Malaysia
Oct 15, 2014●15 Blogs●2,342 Comments
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I know your feeling too well right now.....trust me.

I wish the same too with my late grandpa hug comfort

sad flower sad flower sad flower
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nightfury
nightfuryOP●Jakarta, Indonesia
Oct 15, 2014●50 Blogs●279 Comments
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Thanks mimi.. hug
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Welela
Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway
Oct 15, 2014●2,822 Comments
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Nightfury, I am sorry for you loss a few years back, I lost my dad in 2012 and I too miss him a lot, but as you I talk to him even though he can not answer any more, I do that with both my parents, my mom died in 2000, but I feel I can talk to them and they listen anyhow. I am sure your dad remembered how it was to be a busy person and I am sure he forgive you for this. But please don't regret anything, it will only hurt you... your regrets will never help you, so stop feeling this. And talk to him today, I am sure he listen to you and what you say. Light a candle for him and talk to him, you will feel so much better, I am sure!teddybear teddybear teddybear
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Hans4711
Hans4711●Blayney, New South Wales Australia
Oct 15, 2014●32 Blogs●2,066 Comments
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@ Nightfury - wave ... I understand where you are coming from, Girl..... you're going to love this song:





.... grin comfort wine
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nozeal1
nozeal1●galway city, Galway Ireland
Oct 15, 2014●2 Blogs●473 Comments
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Nightfury Some people can never be replacedsigh frustrated
WHEN they leave us it becomes empty, even if the thought of them is always with you..OF course wanting to turn back time is a normal feeling.... Sincere condoleances to you..VERY SAD and painful
STILL we have to accept that we all die....Sooner or later
LOTS of sympathy
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twazzle70
twazzle70●THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK
Oct 15, 2014●673 Comments
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Hello Nightfury,i can relate totally,my dad passed away in 1983 when i was twelve years old...Devastating,never really got to know him properly...Its a void in life that simply cannot be filled,i always wonder how life would have turned out had he still been here...I do like to think he and my late mum (thankfully she was with us for much longer) are watching out for my son and i....sad flower teddybear
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2ndgoround
2ndgoround●nearby, Texas USA
Oct 15, 2014●6 Blogs●244 Comments
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Hello Nightfury..............thank you for this blog...and if I may thank Hans for posting that incredible song which made me cry and cry.......my heart goes out to all with this same or similar regret...tho I made my peace with my Dad before he died, I have other regrets, too late to amend in person, but in prayer, am thinking all is well.........have to believe that.....hug to all of you on here and especially you Nightfury......teddybear
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nightfury
nightfuryOP●Jakarta, Indonesia
Oct 15, 2014●50 Blogs●279 Comments
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2ndgoround I understand that.. I now also often talk and prsy for my dad.. hopefully it can make up my mistakes in the past.. hug
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namaron
namaron●Seekonk, Massachusetts USA
Oct 15, 2014●1,658 Blogs●20,975 Comments
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My mistakes I made in my past......Never at all bothered my Dad......Ill always be his Little girl........His one ..his only...In this world..............
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nightfury
nightfuryOP●Jakarta, Indonesia
Oct 15, 2014●50 Blogs●279 Comments
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Namaron yes he never bothered my attitude too.. he's the most patient persong I've ever known...
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marianne40
marianne40●Ireland, Westmeath Ireland
Oct 15, 2014●15 Comments
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I know how you feel nightfury, my mum passed away suddenly and im so sorry I didn't spend more time with her and bring her nice places, I would give anything to have told her I loved her before she passed away hug
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Ed1941
Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA
Oct 15, 2014●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments
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Not knowing the Lord sooner!
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Johnny_Sparton
Johnny_Sparton●Williamston, Michigan USA
Oct 15, 2014●372 Blogs●7,940 Comments
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Night....I believe he knows you are keeping him in your memory. :) That is the best anyone of us can do. It is nice of you to write a blog about him. thumbs up
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Ken_19
Ken_19●Winchester, Virginia USA
Oct 16, 2014●284 Blogs●3,903 Comments
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My biggest regret is not objecting more forcefully when a doctor misdiagnosed Flu and refused to give my wife Tamaflu while the symptoms were still mild. I should have insisted he be removed from her care.
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nightfury
nightfuryOP●Jakarta, Indonesia
Oct 16, 2014●50 Blogs●279 Comments
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Marriane I feel you.. I feel like I was so selfish back then..

Ed lool.. :)

Johnny thanks johnny.. just trying to do something..

Ken sorry to hear that Ken..

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