I am Changing the way I think...

I have been alone for twelve years now...that is a long time. We do not count "Donovon" as he was just a "scary teaching" on what not to date....lol. Tell me how long you've been alone and how do you feel about it....(Must live vicariously through others...must live vicariously through others) Just kidding....conversing uh oh Anyway, I am changing the way I think. If I donot like something-I will change it....simply like that....
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do you mean with someone or a just the odd date?
Happy, how long have you been single....how do you feel about it????GOING TO MUCK HORSE MANURE AND THEN RIDE MY HORSE...BE BACK TO CHECK....
Very wise. new beginnings all round for you so.

4 years for me now or there abouts. dunno
PS I am up to 360 crunches a day!!!
ANd Non, in these four years...How do you feel about your solitude of companionship???conversing
1 year now, i love my own company and i cant talk to myself for hourslaugh
Fine Calli,
But I think that may just be complacency.
Nearly 3 years now.I'm a widow and being single is lonely.Can't complain,I have me, myself and I to make decisions.Makes me laugh the older Grandchildren check on me,and I have a curfew imagine that....doh laugh
My view is that most guys will drag you down (likewise for women but that's for another blog). Just ”use” them when you need them until you find the one who's worth your time.
steff can you answer maybe pleaselaugh
Tell me how long you've been alone and how do you feel about it...wink
I was alone for a couple months in 2009, and a few more in 2004-5, oh yeah and a month in 2007. It wasn't that bad laugh
but are you single nowlaugh professor
Its close to a year and a half for me been single and its greatyay you get to go on so many dates and each one makes you thankful your alone... might i add, you can read into that in more ways then one wink
Ive been alone all my life, and I love it, but its hard work trying to keep it like that. and now Im realizing being alone, is actually very hard work, cause your more vulnerable without a backup, against the couples working as a team against you, so, next year I might settle down and make my choice.
but, I dont know if I can give up my flings. its a part of me now and you only live once.
rainbow its the flings that gives you wingsrolling on the floor laughing
I'm not scold laugh
Too many people flying about these days...
thanks happy, now i know why handshake giggle
Itchy
"you get to go on so many dates"
Not me. I get stood up all right laugh
so you are not single steff or not alonewink
yes itchy rainbow aka wth is a fly guyyay
Not really smoker scold
but you might say i'm an angel in practic, even i'd gladly trade the broom in for a pair of wings, one bores with same old way of flying all the time angel

maybe you wood not get stood up if you stopped reaching for the stars every night.giggle
Touché Itchy,
I like your style wine
PS Itchy,
Leave it with me and I'll see if I can think of another way of getting you to Heaven laugh
Hmmn, I'm single for the longest time.
Haha and ok happy, got and understood laugh
night now sleep wave
nite2 itchy!
raven grove on babyyay
(I am changing the way i think) me too-now i went and pulled a muscle in my back.rolling on the floor laughing wave
you shouldnt knit for such long hours waffles, its knit one skip one wink
I'm changing too Waf.
I'll do socks tomorrow, laugh
Eh, meant to say Groove there Happy....but you know what i meantgrin
Thanks Waf,
No sense on CS tonight dunno
i just know shake your groove thanglaugh but i know rav
@ waf i didnt wanna say how truly shocked i was that you still have muscles i thought they left you in the 80's, im so sorry to hear thatgiggle liar
Happyrolling on the floor laughing "too good" lips sugar with that?thumbs up thumbs down dont answer.wave
no, i like honey!lips
scold uh!. .Hey! All Yall! So! What you all talkin about? Feel me in please!. Help
i will feel you, you feels goodwink laugh
Wow, went riding and a quick dip in the pool and lots of going on when I am not here!!! Aint that the story!!!lol. VEry nice comments... and special thank you to wHT...HONESTY IS A GOOD THING(sTEFF!!LOL)

Not MIsstaken, how long is long? I thought mine is almost a record at twelve years...except we all know Virgo has been single for longer.....Where r u Virgo???

Happy, Non, Waffie, Raven,Not, Itchy....Capricorn, Happy,WHT...Steffff, change the way things are.....it's all mental!!! Everything...really!teddybear bouquet
Angel, how did I miss you? Good friend almost next door????Sorry! How long, HOn????conversing comfort
like all my life long Calli. blushing
scold hmmm! Let me see. Well! Just been 3 months. Then him and i, became plain close friends. And then he died this monday. And his funderal was today! So 3 months for me.
Widowed 2.6 years, but had a friend come by at the end of the first year. Psychologically it did have some healing benefit. That ended about 6 months ago (on very good terms), so am thinking of a quick dip in the 'pool' again, but have no desire to go back into the deep end yet.
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looking for someone to support my expensive habits...horses, and my adult children...Belong to a cult and I am a vegan .joking...maybe not a little...ha ha.Thank you CS, here for the blogs.My horses feet are as swift as rolling thunder, he carries me [read more]

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