bambiena
bambiena
columbus, Ohio, USA
Oct 2013
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so i've been talking to this new guy for about a week now, he asked where i lived but i told him i want to talk more before we even think about meeting, so my question is how does it really work when someone asks you out so to speak from a dating site. other then that i have to go to open interveiws for jobs starting tuesday, than after that wait for my settlement money, i'm really scared though cause then i will be moving into my own place and i've never really lived totally by myself, totally independant from other people, any advice or words of wisdom would be much appreciated
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virgosingle
virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand
Oct 20, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments
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well its easy ....dont give out your email address till a year goes by , just to be sure he realy wants you ...ok banana
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bambiena
bambienaOP●columbus, Ohio USA
Oct 20, 2013●50 Blogs●31 Comments
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i haven't given out anything at all, and don't plan to, i make men show me stuff before i jump in
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virgosingle
virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand
Oct 20, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments
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thats the stuff ...you are worth gold in the right hands ...wave
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adamisk
adamisk●raleigh, Mississippi USA
Oct 20, 2013●1,442 Comments
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i dunno i have never met anyone online then met them again offline .
sure i got advice for living alone
keep your doors and windows locked
get a big dog
don't spend too much on luxury
get a gun and learn how to use it
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Scott1812
Scott1812●Claresholm, Alberta Canada
Oct 20, 2013●30 Blogs●395 Comments
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Hi bambiena its good to hear things are going better for you.Take it slow with this guy.wave teddybear
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itchywitch
itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland
Oct 20, 2013●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments
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Good for you bamihandshake
its always a good thing to get men to show their stuff first, that way you avoid later disapointments giggle

But on a more serious note, this chap that your speaking with does he live close to you? go slowly though.
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Char58
Char58●Chillicothe, Ohio USA
Oct 20, 2013
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Take it slow. Watch for red flags. I meet at. Mcdonalds usually the first time. I love the coffee its public and you and he are just out a little bit of time if you don't hit it off. Talking on the site for a while really does save time because a lot of the time you can tell after a while if you really don't want to meet them. Do not invite him to your place until you know him well. Be cautious, good luck.
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Ed1941
Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA
Oct 20, 2013●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments
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Whoaaa!

I would say slow down completely. You have too much going and I would say to get into your home first, get settled and then go from there!
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Didiwop
Didiwop●Pattaya City, Central Thailand Thailand
Oct 21, 2013●17 Comments
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Quite personally bambiena, Im not really all that good at commenting, in fact Im only trying to get real good at blogging, I want to be the Olympic Gold Medal winner for blogs.
But I do see the conundrum you are in, yes indeed.

My advice is to get all the wisdom of the "Serial" commentators, sit down in a comfy place, or go to a bar even, and think, "What blog should I write next"? "Should I use more of those emotion thing's in my next blog"?

Eventually you wont even think about a date, you'll be to amused with your next blog.
Good luck and keep the chin up. (reluctant advice emotion withheld)
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Oct 21, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
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Hi bambiena, if you want to meet him, arrange to meet in a public place. I would suggest coffee (alcohol mightn't be a good idea), if you're comfortable with each other, you can sit down, have cake and chat longer, if not, you can drown your coffee and go home quickly.

I wouldn't accept lifts of complete strangers, and maybe think twice if you give him your mobile number beforehand or if you want to wait until you know that you want to see him again.

Have fun! wave
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ekself
ekself●Onehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa
Oct 21, 2013●1 Blogs●1,711 Comments
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You will be fine living on your own so don't worry about that. You can arrange everything the way you want it as it will be your place where you do as you like.
As for meeting someone in person. Always meet in a public place where there are lots of other people around. Never invite someone to your home or go to his place before you don't know him well enough to know you can trust him.
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GoDaniel
GoDaniel●Leominster, Massachusetts USA
Oct 21, 2013●71 Blogs●2,433 Comments
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Bambiena,

I think your problem might be him knowing about your job interview and waiting for your settlement money, do you think it could be possible that he's looking for the doughdunno confused this is why you need to be careful of what you post on the site especially talking about money and settlements, you will attract God knows what kind of people.
uh oh uh oh uh oh
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KNenagh
KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland
Oct 21, 2013●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments
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uh oh Actually good point Daniel!
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bambiena
bambienaOP●columbus, Ohio USA
Oct 21, 2013●50 Blogs●31 Comments
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i have to laugh at the Olympic gold medalist for blogging comment, that really tickled me. and to the comment about red flags i've learned that you can't always forsee the stupidity you will have to go through with people. i hate like hell to let my ex go, the lord and everyone else on here knows this, but karma will get him, not me, just got tired of waiting, and it's not like i didn't warn him he would lose me. but again karma will get him.
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bambiena
bambienaOP●columbus, Ohio USA
Oct 21, 2013●50 Blogs●31 Comments
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i have to laugh at the Olympic gold medalist for blogging comment, that really tickled me. and to the comment about red flags i've learned that you can't always forsee the stupidity you will have to go through with people. i hate like hell to let my ex go, the lord and everyone else on here knows this, but karma will get him, not me, just got tired of waiting, and it's not like i didn't warn him he would lose me. but again karma will get him.
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