Not a Victim....

After my car accident....I felt...vulnerable, helpless, a victim. THen I came to the realization...I am not my car accident...I am not a victim of all the bad situations that have occurred in my life. Sometimes I read people's profiles that start out with I have "this disease or problem" and the rest of their profile states that they only relate to their disease or ie.; I am THIS disease or I am this victim of my circumstances. There is something to be realized from all things that happen to us. We create our own destiny-as a man thinketh...SO he is....I am not a victim...I am blessed beyond....I am alive I can walk....I can see...I can hear....I can see outside of "my bubble". Don't let your meisms give you tunnel vision....look outside your world. There is a giant world outside of yourself. Free your mind....http://youtu.be/i7iQbBbMAFE
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@Calli..... I agree with you so muchthumbs up I hope you are doing much better!!
teddybear hug
Someone please copy and paste my you tube video...my computer is ready to be replaced.....
GoDaniel...I am a hundred fold better.....I am going to the chiropractor a lot but each time I feel better!
Hi Calli, this is how I've seen my life for the last 10 years. I am no victim, I am me and I am proud to be me. Take me as I am or leave me alone... that's up to you. I changed my life 10 years ago from the victims point of view and into the happy person I am today. No one is to blame for my life... AND now I live it the way I want to it be... as a single lady with no urge to find a new man to drag me down again in the bad spiral. laugh teddybear
Is this you video, Calli?
laugh Calli, right now I am in a good state of mind and find it hard to understand that a man can give me a better life if I meet him. I think I live a wonderful, happy life alone and see a man as a intruder in my happiness... this is how I feel right now.
The song is a good one, I like it too. grin wink
How right you are wine
Dear Calli ... wonderful blog! love it ....

i got into some serious thinking after reading your blog. thanks for sharing
i admire this blog very mauch
Thank you very much Joleen and Leahkatherine....I was caught unaware of the intrinsicality that I had become mired in....a prisoner of my own mind. Me me me....and now I am free. There is more to this life than just me.wow
Hey my friend, Callio,

Great to see you smiling, healthy and in good spirits again!applause

Hmm, I'm still looking up that word you used, "Meisms".. 'cause you said it could bring about a symptom called "tunnelvision"..? Is that like cable or satellite TV? lolconfused

Just kidding with you.

Have a good day and may everyday find you happy and healthy! grin
Hi Calli, good to hear you're well again. wave

Life can be tough and sometimes a kick up the backside to get going again can be a good thing. Nothing worse than these people who constantly moan about how terrible their life is. uh oh

Life's too short and should be enjoyed. wine
Robrt, lovely to have you on my blog.Hug kiss!

Knenaugh, You are always a sweet dear thing. Hug and kiss also!! (Only like a girl kiss on the cheek...lol)conversing laugh
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looking for someone to support my expensive habits...horses, and my adult children...Belong to a cult and I am a vegan .joking...maybe not a little...ha ha.Thank you CS, here for the blogs.My horses feet are as swift as rolling thunder, he carries me [read more]

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