do you want children

what are men thinking when that is asked, they put dont know or defnitly, andi wisthe age of the women they are seeking might be 40 to 60, what is that about i dont know any women wanting or even able to have children at that age,and some men age 60 looking for age 18 to 25,totally crazy. doh confused
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I think that a man in his 60s can have an open mind about having a child? To hold that little thing in one hand, and spoil the little mini me. Yes, he may be pretty old by the time the child gets out of high school. Yet, at the later parts of life, we have more quality time with them.
A woman may have a child in her early 50s. but they are normally content not to. And at that age defects are more common.
A woman in her 40s often wants a child.
And what is wrong with an old man and a younger woman. It can happen! I am not saying that that is common, however, one really does not know what is going to happen, now do we?
So. I say that I am open to that.
well of course the comment came from a man, i dont care what age the woman and man are, thats not the point women do go past sell by date for having children thats all i mean.
Yes, but they are still great women. I am open to them also. But I will be honest with you. I find that older women are harder to turn their heads?? It is like they are afraid of comittment or something?
You tell us?
I just peaked at your profile. You sound like a great woman. A real catch. You want a younger man than you.
I have to admitt that I did not open your friends profiles, yet some of them look in their 30s.
Now you know darn good and well that at a point in time, in the heat of passon. he is going to want to inpregnate you. It is normal. The need to pupechuate the species.
Heck, if I had you, I might want to do the same thing?
That is a driving force.
A woman in her 40's might have children already. Those tick boxes don't specify that the children have to be the man's biological children.

Maybe some older men would welcome a houseful of grandchildren.

They might foster, or adopt, open a children's home.

Someone may dearly love to have kids, but never have them. It doesn't necessarily stop them from having those feelings of wanting a family.

Who knows what those mandatory tick boxes mean to each person? They hardly describe all the complexities of thought and feelings that people have about family life.

I think you kind of need to talk to the people behind the profile if you really want to know.
I was just about to make a comment but see Jac beat me to it laugh most women have children so an older man when faced with the question want children would often answer yes assuming a child already in existence, rather than wishing to make news headlines laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Thank you for opening up my mind to those points, i shall take on board what you said.
@namaron thumbs up
The man above 60 with an 18-25 year old. That is the only way he is likely to produce a healthy child. So it he wants his children to be healthy she has to be young. Even if she is 40 the odds are the child will have a birth defect. So he has no choices other than forget about having an heir but rejoice that other people are happy he has non, or ignore them, do it with the young woman and produce a healthy heir.

Often Darwin will rule, the older women will be unhappy, but the old man gets a healthy child.
that is a good excuse i suppose if any stretch of the imagination the man is royality, and needs an heir to the throne, come off it feeble excuse
A man can bear fruit as he exhales his last dying breath. And we live in society's of wealthier older people and impoverished youth, so I can only see the young girl/rich old man relationship becoming more common.
And young girls are privileged to have this option.

Young men will have to work like a Japanese prisoner of war if we want kids of our own. Either that or get on benefits, but even this is becoming an increasingly less attractive loophole.
I have the same problem, younger men who want to have kids. Mine are also grown up and I'm too old to have more kids, nor do I WANT to have any more! So I am also confused by men who want kids, yet approach me for romancefrustrated
No...definitely not, I`m 58 yrs. old now, I don't expect any potential wife to want or to be expected to have any children, she probably has some already also.

If I was about 20-30 years younger, perhaps, but not at this stage of my life. I`m sure the woman would feel the same way.
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