The self recognition of an educated woman in this
I watched a drama, talking about an educated lady,who loved a guy in her university. The guy was very handsome and upbeating, as well as very capable. When he left for another city after the graduation, she also tried to follow him to this strange city. But the guy didn't accept her. How could she earn a living in the big vanity city, she finally became a lover of the head of a gangster. She had rich life from the guy.But one time she confessed that in this city, only except for the house the head of the gangster gave her.She said that was not her home, she didn't have a home in this rich city.I feel the struggling in her heart that she longed for a real guy to love her.
And the guy from the university also told her to gave up the vanity life in the city and try to earn a living by her own hands.
I also respect a person who can earn a living by their own hands. I know how difficult it is to find a person to share the same interest with you!
So if you have them in your life, value them
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I really wish to be a woman who can have kids and taking care of families. Well, when necessary let the husband goes out working, and taking care of the family!
I have a female friend, who married a French, and they got a son now. Well she has to stay home and takes care of their son. She said the other day that, she wished herself to earn good money like some capable women. I told her: she has her happiness, money is not the only thing!
I choose to work on my own this is a big reason, cos I know in life we need use our own brain to earn a living, supporting your own life. But I still want to look for a guy,and being supportive to each other.
I am still hoping to find that guy!
I am happy for you that you can lead a life you want. I understand how difficult it can be if nobody supports the life,it is like a squashed nest. Well, this is the reason why I stood out and worked hard all these years.
Am I doing the correct things? I think so, my own sacrifice just purely saves everyone in my family. I can never desert my baby and mum.
I wish the best for you,Mimi.
So long as you are happy in the life, the form of the family is not important.
You did very well especially in handling your ex. You gave it your best shot to help him many times and he didn't want to be helped....
Salute to you Mimi....
Wishing you all the best for your plans.....
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Still we say life is great!
It is lovely to enjoy your time with your children, Mimi!
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Indeed you are
I did refuse most. I don't like to lie.
How could dresses be a heavy load?
I always think: it is nice a lady try to look nice which means she cares about her looking.
We have come 180 degrees from when I was a youth (in many ways actually) and today in any working class neighborhood the great majority of women hold full time jobs of all types. Usually only the rich in America are able to afford a wife who stays home all day and produces no income.
I said:" true,I have only established a secured finance for our daughter, my mum and me myself without anybody else's help!" I would also like to do something else,supposedly you shoulder all the financial responsibilities, or all I always pest on you to ask for money, what do you think?" He said:" you would not be able to find me,I would hide in a place nobody can find me"
Then I told him," it is also because you and me are lucky, I am able to support the family myself. If I was like the wife of the other british guy, who would insist on renting a 3 bedroom apartment,squander 30000pounds on rent alone,and every year there would be expensive school fee for their daughter, you would understand you need hide yourself"
I have been working hard over 10 years, so that I am also missing my prime time to find a guy. I seriously wish all the ladies good luck in having a responsible guy with you.
On the other side, I admited as I have to work all these years, I gave up a lot of other things to support the family. I have only supported the family successfully.
But I think I like myself a lot. I know not everyone can do what I have done! Even for a guy to support a family alone in this modern world is not easy.
And a late spring is also a spring. I want to study more and find a guy as I have established my life stably.
I had struggled out of the swirl. Life is getting better. I overcome the problems step by step.
Sometimes I would ask myself, why I will stick to my conscience and try to work hard, try to help my relatives,my friends,but when I was in trouble, I was so helpless.
I think the education and life experiences just make us like this. Even we face the difficulties in life, we preserve a part of kindness in heart.
I often talked with the other british guy, you need look for warmth in life, cos you can grow out of the depression once you help other people, and vice versa.
Wishing you the very best
And it must be said that within the vanity city is where woman are the most self-important about their careerist ambitions and individual desires, and where they are the least interested in securing the future of the Human race.
We say: once you have education, you are able to think in life, then in a way, your time of suffering begins. Well, I think cos you need face a lot of difficult time, and think of different sides, and the suffering just means that!
I spoke out my idea cos I had suffered, and I know how cruel it is to purely walk away and leave a life bill to the other. I might already look down upon this kind of behavior, so please forgive me if did it.
I even now still have this habit. When my daughter wants a pet, no matter a dog, a cat, I always say"no", if i want something, I mean it, and I will take care of it always,especially to a life. I don't like to keep them half way, and throw them out of my door.
I pay the life bills in my life, so that I know usually the responsible side will pay the life bill. And an unbalanced life pattern can continue, it means one side sacrifice a lot.