Time detect
Guys.... When you think you have found a matching person in CS and you start contacting her (for man) or you start replying his email (for woman) or vise versa.... How long normally you can detect that this communication of exchange message has no future...? And for what reason you think it has to end... ? I guess scammers are not included... In my case, for scammers, I need 2 second to decide to end the communication by deleting their first email after reading it
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@ hi loulou.... I'm not tired to communicate as it is my job too as a negotiator but I just don't want to waste my feeling. As you know when we think we find a chemistry with someone then a new habit is built (like get use to have his nice email every morning or before going to bed. Once we think this won't work, this habit would go slowly and left me in new lovely atmosphere... Oh I hate that stage )
Hyper sensitivity....bloody killing passion...feel like tasting KCN...no use to live...
I haven't found anyone within 50 miles of me on CS whose profile inspired me enough to contact them. Those were physical future people who sadly, just don't exist. All of those here whose persona (and profile or blogs or forum comments) inspired me enough to reach out to them live too far away for a physical interaction to occur. Sad but true thus far.
That brings me to the reality. All will be pen pals. That is the future of the relationship. With that definition established, those with no future are defined as those whose writings or profile is later found to contain non-truth. Sad, but block and delete, maybe a heads up to CS as well. Happy I am that such pen-pal failures are rare. Two from here actually made it to my FaceBook page and me to theirs. I know the names of their children and whose birthday is coming up, and they know what makes me tick and the names of my cats and we share personal advice about each others current significant other. What greater success can a Pen-Pal have?
Aside from the distance thing...unless she is traveling to me.
For me,
A lot of times I will end conversation if she starts stating things she expects in a relationship that I cannot or will not offer. The timeline will vary.