Why people run away from love ?
Referring to one good blog (but comment is not welcome) by hidden profile, indeed many people are running away from love after they found love.I don't think it is because they feel tired of love (they could be tired of their lover
), I think most of the case because they are afraid to move to the next step of love.Those who are tired of love will not looking for new love unless a thunder hit them and refresh their spirit of making a new love. I'm taking myself as an example of this case....
Love is not only giving. Love is also responsible and commitment. This 2 characters of love that make some people prefer to live as a single person. They like to have someone to love and someone to be loved but when the time for love to step up, they run away from their lover.... In my opinion, people who are afraid of next step of love when word "serious" must be add on, are people who would never know the deep meaning of love. They will only hanging around on the surface of love.
My sympathy goes to all the victims of love.....
We all know the story of the famous Mr Crocs in our blogs world but we don't know what keep the lady so devoted to her love. She could be the victim of love.
One thing for sure that LDR love could be very fragile or could be very powerful. We are all pleased to receive news from our friends teddy and jenny who would have their wedding soon. They have found love they are looking for. This is the example of a powerful love.
Congratulation for your wedding... May you both enter the glorious of a marriage live and happy ever after.
In the other hand, many ladies and gentlemen who suddenly lost their love because suddenly their lover disappear. One story I could share.... The virtual lover could be disappear after he/she attended one party and met a woman/man and they found chemistry between them. The love story they have with their lover in virtual world is becoming a history. No good bye no apologize, they just leave it that way and let their virtual lover keep waiting till they realize that her/his love has been swallowed by their computer.
I don't know if you all know that CS exists to offer you love. Many kind of love and it is you who select what kind of love you wanted.
I wish you good luck and bon courage....
Ps. This blog is pure my personal opinion. For those who has your own opinion and having different view than mine, you are most welcome to share your view. I always believe that the difference is enriching us...
Comments (11)
they wants shortterm happiness
Excatly... We don't need lots of word or excuses if the conclusion is the same as 3 word.... The impact is also the same.... The result is also the same.... broken heart and home alone
Cape kan mengejar...
when the persons decide to be in short term relationship it only means at some level of your mind you both are scared of moving ahead .i mean both of them are not feeling the responsibility to live together and they hv to intention to move forward to long term relationship or marriage
long term relationship
when the two persons decide to be in long term relationships it only means that still you are missing something and you are still scared of something or you are not responsible enough and some persons are even not mature to understand what the long term relationship is?and that some persons are with eachotheres just for adventure living inthe world of illusion masked by love,
marriage
most of the persons who directly decide to get marry are persons who are very bold and aware of every thing about love and relationship and they are committed to be live and marry together and other group of peoples just donot want to marry bcs of legal complications.
once again i will say building relationship is not something very simple and easy but very serious thing so every person who want to be in relationship both of them shall be at equal wavelength and pitch and frequency.i hv to say building relationship is like soil and seed so relationship is only built when soil and seed both are compatible and suitable with eachothers
what i said here is what i felt at some stage of relationship and of course there are multiple reasons for persons to reach to the final staage and I may be wrong
thank you