drugs and relationships

Is someone claiming that drug user are not allowed to have girlfriends?
There are risks and damages, some people can live with that.

The solution is very very simple. But as with all simple things, it is not simple, not because they are not simple, but because we make them not simple. Get and understand this statement right! The solution lays in awareness of what we are doing all the time. For the woman, she needs to bring awareness in her love to the guy. For the guy, he needs to take his drugs in awareness. This is where the beauty of awareness will reveal itself, magically. This is a very long topic for which we can write a good book about. But the thing to take note of is that when you do things in awareness, the so called bad things will drop on their own accord, without even your effort to drop them. The so called good things, will take over the vacant place left by the departed bad things.In your friend's case, the bad things are the ones that are preventing their relationship from being a smooth sailing. They are the things she does without any awareness and they are many! For the guy, the bad things are equally those he does without awareness. They could be the drugs he has been taking. If he takes them in awareness, the result is very obvious. The awareness, through its magic, will get this habit dropped. If the takes them without awareness, the result again is very much obvious. The situation can only progress from bad to worse. The keys lays deeply buried in awareness.