Marriage The Value Of

Galations 1:10 Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bond servant of Christ.

2 Corinthians 8:14 Do not be yoked together with un believers. For what do righteous and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

Is marriage valued anymore>>?? are values and self respect on people's character trait list?? And who's to blame for the moral of men and women's hearts these days?? I have to say the grain the game of men and women love thing has gotten really insane.

Watching TV and saw a commercial, the online booty call one. The guy was asking the women to marry him and the player guy came and punted him out the way. I was thinking man I would have moved and stuck my foot out lol.

And sure some guys see that and say har de har de har that's cool etc. And they treat the women they are with like crap etc. You don't have to use and abuse people to be cool or whatever people say. My whole idea of a cool person is staying true to yourself and not some scared sell out.

I believe a man and a women are meant for marriage. I believe you should be faithful to that person and loyal. And I believe in any relationship there should be a two way respect, without it your relationship will crumble.

You don't need to read a book, or learn how to have a relationship with anyone, its a simple thing made hard. It's as simple as Jesus said,
do on to others as you would want them to do to you. That is in friendship and the whole love thing. I learned in the Lord, Love respects and Love doesn't want to cause harm.

So all the so called player players out there, to me your insecure starving for identity hurting anyone in your path trying to build respect in the wrong things. Don't see yourself with someone, don't lead them on just be up front and respect that person.

I've been through hell and back with someone, and I have no idea how this person sleeps at night, but I'm sure she does lack of conscience, class, character. And I tell you, the next one the Lord will have to give me a sign, an insane sign before I put my heart out there.

So you can say I'm a victim of love crimes lol, but this was wow something one can't explain, creepy, weird, and just a nightmare. The bottom line is we need to be people readers, save yourself some heartache, let the Lord guide you to your mate.

I refuse to go with the grain or model myself off a cheap commercial and the lame cool guy thing. Going to keep my morals the Lord taught me close to my heart and go from there, and I refuse to sell out, do the same don't sell out.

If you can't find contentment in marriage or with a person, your not ready for that step in life. Contentment is the key to marriage and 9 times out of 10 only the Love of Christ can bring that about between two people.

Happiness is contentment, that's common sense.:) So if you are looking for marriage, simply plan to respect that person like you want to be respected, know you can be content with that person, and let the Love ((Spirit)) of Christ bring that about.
It's simple stop making things hard
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