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Jun 2009

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How to remove hateness in your heart ?

After u've been hurt by someone in your family for years, how could you remove hateness in your heart when u hv to keep meet him/her temporary or even everyday, n he/she keeps doing the same mistakes over n over ?

move away n leave your family is not the best solution right.
we hv to face the problem not to run away.
But how ????

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heatherhuntsman●wa, Washington USA

Jun 29, 2009●1 Blogs●13 Comments

Pray for them with love in your heart. Love them and with sincere honesty pray they will be happy and have all the happiness they can .Search for what ever part you played in the relationship. Forgive, have compassion. It might take years. In my situation it is too intense for contact, yet some days it gets better. Time heal all.Rejoice and give thanks.Peace and Love

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sweetvelvet●dublin, Dublin Ireland

Jun 29, 2009●36 Comments

i felt hurt by a member of my family for years ,it was only when i forgave them the person that i could start to feel able to deal with them better.

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unlucky●Hamilton, Pembroke Bermuda

Jun 29, 2009●11 Comments

It's not easy. First you for give them. pray that you did all you could help them. If they keep making same mistakes. Pray for them and be there for them if they see what they is doing wrong and need your help,

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OneKitty●La Grande, Oregon USA

Jun 29, 2009●7 Comments

You have to set personal boundaries for yourself. For instance, "I am not going to allow you to do that to me anymore," I am worth more than that. You can do a google search on personal boundaries and it will explain it better than I can. Good luck!

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gizmo1965●poteau, Oklahoma USA

Jun 29, 2009●5 Blogs●18 Comments

Hi Red,
I feel bad for you and your situation. I have had problems with my family sound's like yours.My most recent was a man i met on here who used me and i loved him so much this went on for 3 years.Yes i know i was stupid but as they say "Love is blind" I never received any recieved any relief from my pain until i prayed and asked God to for forgive him for the pain he caused me,Then & only then did i feel peace & was able to move on with my life... Good luck, Gizmo

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Red_CherryOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Jun 30, 2009●11 Blogs●31 Comments

i knew that if i want to be happy i have to start to forgive them, but why sometimes soo difficult ?
sometimes i cant understand what im doin wrong n why they doing bad to me.

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sg0974●No Where, Indiana USA

Jun 30, 2009●5 Blogs●57 Comments

Not that even that long ago that I was in a relationship of where I thought that the woman that I met truly loved me for me until that love and trust was completely destroyed. Deep down in my heart, I know what this person has said and done to me personally will never be forgiven. In your situation, to the people that has hurt you, They will have to answer to god himself in due time and they will have to repent for their sins and ask for forgiveness from God, Jesus, and eventually to you.

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khirin●np, New Providence Bahamas

Jun 30, 2009●1 Blogs●4 Comments

u have to forgive that person, hate is a serious thing and it destroys you also. you have to forgive them for you, praying always helps.

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Red_CherryOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Jul 1, 2009●11 Blogs●31 Comments

i Tried, will hardly try, though its really hard
n keep trying trying n trying.
thank you :)

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Red_CherryOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia

Apr 25, 2010●11 Blogs●31 Comments

#10

I have found the way to forgive n to love the people who had hurt me badly

hmmm..
Live in peace is perfect
New live
Better life
BIG Happiness
Now i can see the world is beautifull
n the future opened for me
live getting easier

THX GOD for hearing my pray

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