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How do we know that a man is really a good guy or

I heard too many bad things about marriage, thats really scary. Of course there are many happy marriage, n i want to be there someday, BUT.. The problem is, i never feel sure that somebody who close to me or try to be close to me is the right ONE for me. Im not sure that i will be happy beside him, n the most scary thing is.. How IF he change to be bad n hurt me?
Brrrrrrrrrrrr.. confused
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phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1●northern, British Columbia Canada
May 28, 2009●4 Blogs●45 Comments
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easy...if he change to be bad to hurt you......and you try to communicate and understand and love him.....and he is just a cad?

you have no choice but to walk away........i had to start over after 25 years

you both have to go into it with a commitment to make it work ...and do the work so it works for both of you... there is much to this

how to know if he is really good guy??? the girls may have an answer....but go with your intuition... is your best friend.. never go against your intuition because you want him. teddybear teddybear
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mark65
mark65●sydney, New South Wales Australia
May 28, 2009●9 Blogs●27 Comments
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this is a little simple formula
look for the signes
the person who loves the least controls the relationship
when you see this happening you should be on your gaurd
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virgosingle
virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand
May 30, 2009●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments
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the best question so far , sometimes I wounder about that with women , who live in my town , and scream at me for not going out with them , they should have told me they were in love with me ,instead I thought their actions were just being polite to begin with , I think that in your case your best bet would be to get to know the person long befor you marry them and if posible ask for references they must have freinds who you can tell you if they are good or not , there is alot to watch out for but if we take a chance we may find true happiness
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rubendario
rubendario●Hartford, Connecticut USA
May 30, 2009●23 Blogs●552 Comments
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TIME. Give it lots of time, everyone shows their true colors given enough time.
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Red_Cherry
Red_CherryOP●Surabaya, East Java Indonesia
Jun 1, 2009●11 Blogs●31 Comments
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YES Ruben, time will proof that someone is the best for us or not. But why the time always proved that hes not the best for me. i've tried many times, .. why i never feel sure that hes the best for me ?

mayb i heard too much bout anything bad in marriage. But thats not the problem.
Some men i knew, they wont do any effort to make his dream to be real with me but They always asked me to do this, or to do that, Thats made me felt that they're not really want me n why should i b sure bout him ? help sigh
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Godslave
Godslave●Nowhere, North Carolina USA
Jun 7, 2009●5 Comments
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Yes, one of the first signs of a 'bad' man is that he immediately tries to control you; tell you how you should change; or be this or that; or he would be more happy w/ you if you do this or that for him. If a man tries to change you or your life in ANY way-- LOSE him! If he really loves you, he will accept you for who/what you truly are naturally & will love you for your ''differences.' If he suggests you do ANYthing to 'please' him that is not your natural way, then dump him -- FAST! He is looking for someone who is NOT you! And you will be miserable trying to live up to HIS expectations of what HE WANTS you to be for him! Tell him to go find what he really wants! Instead of constantly trying to change yourself, cos no matter WHAT you do , he will NEVER be satisfied with YOU! I KNOW! Been there, done that, & it NEVER works!
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