chame1eon_again
chame1eon_again
Blueberry, Pennsylvania, USA
May 2016
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Predicament....

Okay, so this very flowery, 'respectful' mid-eastern man has declared his love for me (and yet he once erroneously confused me with 'Donna'. Very recently, I would add.

Now I see that another woman seems to be quite besotted with him and he professing his 'love' for her. A lot of people here appear to respect him, probably because they are fooled by his overuse of daisy daisy daisy good luck good luck good luck and rose rose rose before and after each sentence and also the superfluous 'respected', 'wellmannered' etc other terms of false flattery he generally uses.

No, I have no feelings for him. In communicating with him I was being courteous. Nothing more. I discontinued the false narrative between us after he declared here on the blogs that 'women are half as wise as men' and I made clear what I thought of his mindset.

Although I'm unsure of his endgame, I hate to see anyone so clearly being duped. Should I tell try to tell her he's playing her...or leave it be?

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loulou77
loulou77●Vancouver, British Columbia Canada
May 5, 2016●71 Blogs●5,968 Comments
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Cham

I hear you...I think you should private e-mail him about your thoughts...you have mail...wine
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Loulou,

You're suggestion is a good one, but I was so angry at his 'women are 1/2 as wise as men' crack that I blocked him. Maybe this blog will do get the message across?
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loulou77
loulou77●Vancouver, British Columbia Canada
May 5, 2016●71 Blogs●5,968 Comments
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Cham

I think he has to respect people here...it is an international site...saying women are half wise in comparison to men...he will not be successful in making friends here...which is funny...this is a dating site...confused laugh
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sands88
sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments
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Hi again, I meant to ask him which half he was referring to, but it became a mob scene and had to leave.....laugh

I wouldn't get involved, learning is half the battle on a dating site..now don't ask me which half...cheers
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Actually, he does seem to have attracted one woman here from the blogs. Which is really none of my business. I just think if I were her I would want to know that I was being played (if I was unsuspecting enough not to notice it myself).
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ashlander
ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA
May 5, 2016●3,804 Comments
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One thing you'll never hear me say on blogs-
Tell me how you really feel. laugh code red!
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Sands, I will confess that most people's wise half is probably twice as wise as my wise half. Nonetheless, my somewhat wise half took exception to his unwise statement. grin
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Ash, I just don't know how I feel about your statement... banana
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sands88
sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments
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again, yeah, I had to do one of thesewow myself......then I thought it was probably a cultural thing. What guy would say that on a dating site???dunno
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Sands, I agree that thinking is at least partially cultural. What got under my skin was the degree to which he attempts to flatter women on this site with all sorts of false respect, while actually having little, if any, actual respect for them.
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Ash, try reading the blogs while sober. They make more sense that way. grin
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ashlander
ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA
May 5, 2016●3,804 Comments
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Your comments are sober,I mean somber.crying comfort
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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lol Are you sure? grin
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ashlander
ashlander●In God's Hands, Oregon USA
May 5, 2016●3,804 Comments
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How do you mean flowery,like Jerry Seinfeld's pirate shirt?yay
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Exactly like Jerry Seinfeld's shirt. No flowers for you.
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Abby1963
Abby1963●California, USA
May 5, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments
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The woman your talking about might know how he thinks of women and may be okay with that ,my thinking is if she's on the blogs she's gonna see this anyways .it looks like you killed two birds with one stonevlaugh bouquet
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chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againOP●Blueberry, Pennsylvania USA
May 5, 2016●6 Blogs●294 Comments
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Abby, touche! handshake thumbs up
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