Have you ever...?
As a single person, you don't get touched. You don't even realize how important it is until someone touches you (in whatever capacity that encompasses) and you find yourself hypersensitive to their touch.How does that make you feel? Do you welcome it? Or wish they'd bugger off so because it makes you too cognizant of what you're missing?
I know this is a weird blog, but I'm single and I wonder things.
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For me, it would depend on his ability to touch you in a way that will welcome the affection and who know's, you just might like it and want more.
So what about you?
Italian heritage from several generations born in America.
But what if the person touching you is attractive, but you don't know if they are available? Is it okay or would you rather they kept a distance?
No.
Bada BING bada BOOM
I'm not available and thankfully I haven't had to push someone away who wanted to get friendly.
In fact now if someone strange touched me I would give him--or her a Geordie left hook
I suppose it is what you wish for in life as to how you would respond to touching
Could it be because i'm single all these years? idk
For example, when somebody runs their hands through your hair....while touching your scalp.
or...
Something as innocent as somebody deliberately touching your arm...that you feel attracted to. You know that she is not repulsed by you...otherwise not only would she not talk to you, but she for sure would not even touch you. So, a touch can feel good but also mean a lot.
...in my opinion
I worked with another chap who would grab and dig his fingers into my arm. It felt aggressive and it hurt, even though it was always under the pretence of banter.
It really depends upon the type of touch. One type may remind me of what I'm missing, another may remind me of what I'm not.
I am a very tactile person and for me the touch is very important.
Also the hugging and the kissing as it is the custom here in Spain
Chame1eon
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I think it's all shown in attitude before the touch goes down, basically in the attitude of how intrusive a person is in general..
Lots depend on the toucher. Some times a pat or hand on a shoulder is welcome. And some times, like getting bit by a bug.
I find with age, touch is less desired. My guy and I are not overly demonstrative. He because lacked it growing up. Me cause just being together is enough.
I miss my dog. She had a way that to hug her, all aches fell away. I guess it is the aura thing. If they match, touch is fine. Not and leave me alone. I hate shaking hands. Why cant we bow like Asia. Germy hands dont appeal to me.