Deception And Betrayals...

Love and relationship that started from or based on deception...

I'm just wondering why some people go for someone who's already in relationship with someone else...could be someone's BF/GF, Wife/Husband ? I'm sure many will succeed in breaking up a relationship and getting the person they want...but would it result to a happy ever after?

Would you consider dating someone who's hurt/hurting/willing to hurt someone just to be with you? There's a possibility that he/she will do the same to you , will you trust him/her ?

Marriage/relationship wreckers...does love really justify their madness?

Happy Monday everyoneteddybear
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My Daughters fate is my deepest wound ever in my self and it is going to hunt me up to the last breath in this life....I was not there when she needed me and she was so scared,that she told it to me after she escaped as 15 to live with me and my 2 sons.
CH, so only people who see in black and white are "good' people?hmmm
Molly,

You know, I didn't mean it that waygiggle

I can elaborate if needed...giggle
There would be no deception, I would tell you every time I smoke it laugh
Flo,

Yesh...let's do it tomorrow...for Tuesdaydancing
CH, better for friday, all ladys will have enough time to think about until than wink laugh
Flo,

Friday is a bad day...I'm planning to blog about something else...no idea yet but I'll come up with somethinglaugh
Haven't read all the comments here but Crazy I've read a few of yours and from what I'm reading seems to me your sitting in your high and mighty throne making judgement of such people.

Sometimes unless you have walked in someone's shoes it might be best not to tell them how to tie their laces.

Rockingchair, glad to read your friend found his happy ending. wine
itcy..I think you will find that blogs like this from CH..shes actually in a similar situation..or asking advice, or question, in an indirect way...maybe dunno
Itchy,

You've got me wrong...not being judgemental here but rather trying to gather opinions and figured out where did I go wrong...
This topic is very sensitive to me...been bottling this for years...I know exactly what it feels but would like to see things from others' perspective...
If you held a gun to my head, I still wouldn't touch somebody else's woman. It's Respect. If I show up at a Brother's house and he's not home, I'll stay outside thru a hurricane before I'll go in the house alone with his woman. The same Respect is shown to me. Granted our lifestyle and code is different from the average persons, but I believe that going the extra mile to show Respect is part of the glue that bonds us in our organization. beer
If I was ever put in the position where I had to choose, I would choose weed every time because if anyone is going to make me choose, they are not right for me.
Nobody who is truly happy in a relationship has an affair.
Track..your are on weed for other reasons, depression.
That's much better Ian thumbs up
Now Crazy, do listen to the man when he's talking sense comfort

Night now Craze, I'm gone...

Ps, sorry for Jumping on you earlier comfort
but I too am sensitive about the topic.

sleep
Itchy, I know! And I don't buy those picture perfect marriages /relationship either...have a lovely night there!
Cap,

My salute to you! That's what I call respect ...a real man's respect and principle ...not all men nowadays has that.

You remind me of my ex-husband friend....he came into my house without meaning to. My guest was expecting her friend , they knew that men are not allowed to enter my house...this friend of hers were dropped by her BF outside my door...when my son open the door and saw the man, he jumped on to him, he was clinging to him and pulling him to get inside...this man brought him inside the door , he thought my son was there for a visit too, he didn't know we live there...when he saw me, he begged me not to tell my ex-husband he was there ....he said this means war between themlaugh I know exactly what it means so I didn't mention it to my ex- ...they are good friends but they have this red line that one mustn't crossed at all....that's part of being a man for them.
Track,

If you are happy with someone, I dot think you would need the weedsteddybear
the reason there is this..man can't be in another room with a woman is those men can't control themselves,.they still can't 1000 years on..
by means keep your dignity...but let your hair down..everyone deserves that.
CH, 'having it all' and being truly happy and content in a relationship is not the same thing,
Ian,

Yeah...
....ill bring me tool box..and average hammer.
Ian, I simply can't wait for that honour laugh
CH, that is a betrayal of friendship, totally different thing.

Yes, he was your ex, but they should not have done it, especially in your kitchen.

That is showing lack of basic respect.
..and CH this is where yo get your..Filipina phobia..you seem to attract the wrong ones..men and women.
CH...to me it seems you are damaged from the people you trusted..this is why you are like your are.
...when your son grows up..its time to leave Jordan and find other pastures...time to go home for a bit and see mum and dad..stop burying our head in the sand frustrated
note to self..avoid filipinas...grin
Ian,

I know he was going to the house ...told my friend to expect him....she did and prepared for himdoh

Yes, that's why I'm very picky when it comes to friends and I don't trust my own people anymore.... I fed them, the bit my finger...not once but countless times ...I'm better off blogginglaugh
Ian,

I know he was going to the house ...told my friend to expect him....she did and prepared for himdoh

Yes, that's why I'm very picky when it comes to friends and I don't trust my own people anymore.... I fed them, the bit my finger...not once but countless times ...I'm better off blogginglaugh
anyone who is a soft option gets walked over..its instinct
Yeah ...best to avoid people ...or toughen up which I don't think I can do at this pintdoh laugh
Ianrolling on the floor laughing I know it's coming....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Avoiding people is not the answer.
Picking good friends and keeping them is the key.
None of my friends would ever betray me, nor me them.
That is what friendship is,
So snap out of this depression..coz you are !...and toughen up, I don't wanna here another blog from you that repeats itself...

Like I said to one of my staff last week....Ive helped you for two years, but I can't help you anymore if you're not prepared to help yourself.help
good night...
Molly,

Bad one or two is understandable....more than that, one would need to think countless times before accepting someone as a friend....I just find it difficult to find ones that I have a lot in common with...but yes, I do get a lot of invitations , I politely turn them down, in a nice way....I do go out with my colleagues from time to time.... Just part of work for melaugh
Going to bed here...goodnight! teddybear
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